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	<title>Comments on: Notes on Attachment</title>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-11667</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 11:51:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Karen,
You might want to look at the White Paper on Coercion at the Association for the Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children (www.attach.org).  Cradeling or being held by a caregiver/significant other in a collaborative and non-coercive manner can be a very therapuetic and engaging experience.  Coercion and intrusive methods are not appropriate in any treatment.  The only time forced holding or restraint is appropriate is in those very rare situations where a person is dysregulated, out of control, and about to hurt self or others.  

I have some material about attachment that is relevant for adults on my website, www.center4familydevelop.com

regards

Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Karen,<br />
You might want to look at the White Paper on Coercion at the Association for the Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children (www.attach.org).  Cradeling or being held by a caregiver/significant other in a collaborative and non-coercive manner can be a very therapuetic and engaging experience.  Coercion and intrusive methods are not appropriate in any treatment.  The only time forced holding or restraint is appropriate is in those very rare situations where a person is dysregulated, out of control, and about to hurt self or others.  </p>
<p>I have some material about attachment that is relevant for adults on my website, <a href="http://www.center4familydevelop.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.center4familydevelop.com</a></p>
<p>regards</p>
<p>Art</p>
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		<title>By: Karen</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-11655</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 03:59:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have an MA and an EdS in counseling.  I have been going through holding therapy for the last year with my therapist who has the proper credentialing and supervision.  At 40 years of age, this is an extremely difficult task, yet from my own experience as a therapist, I know that this is something I must endure to be able to "feel" love, which I currrently don't feel - at least not the way most people do.  Can you please recommend a site for Adults who are going through holding therapy?  I need to be able to connect with others who feel the same way as I do.  Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have an MA and an EdS in counseling.  I have been going through holding therapy for the last year with my therapist who has the proper credentialing and supervision.  At 40 years of age, this is an extremely difficult task, yet from my own experience as a therapist, I know that this is something I must endure to be able to &#8220;feel&#8221; love, which I currrently don&#8217;t feel - at least not the way most people do.  Can you please recommend a site for Adults who are going through holding therapy?  I need to be able to connect with others who feel the same way as I do.  Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Maurice</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-11525</link>
		<dc:creator>Maurice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 10:41:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, I am a parent of a 4 year old boy. I am worried that my reprimanding my son constantly might make him hate me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I am a parent of a 4 year old boy. I am worried that my reprimanding my son constantly might make him hate me.</p>
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		<title>By: Patti Desert</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-11175</link>
		<dc:creator>Patti Desert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 12:48:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been in clinical practice for over twenty years and my specialty is depression, anxiety, and trauma.  In this period I have experienced many, many different perspectives, different theories, different evidence-based practices and always I prefer respectful dialogue and appreciation for another's point of view, whether or not it agrees with mine.  Evidence-based practice is as important to consider as the cogent, well-thought out analysis a clinician presents to explain effective treatment that is not supported by empirical studies.  We are complex beings and our understanding of ourselves changes over the years.  Criticism shuts down communication and sharing our respectives beliefs without it brings rich learning and equally important, warm connection to the process.  I don't often participate in online dialogue because my life is very busy off line.  But I read these comments and was prompted to offer these thoughts and thank the Admin Staff for managing this site so that we all have a place to respectfully give to and receive of each other.   Patti</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been in clinical practice for over twenty years and my specialty is depression, anxiety, and trauma.  In this period I have experienced many, many different perspectives, different theories, different evidence-based practices and always I prefer respectful dialogue and appreciation for another&#8217;s point of view, whether or not it agrees with mine.  Evidence-based practice is as important to consider as the cogent, well-thought out analysis a clinician presents to explain effective treatment that is not supported by empirical studies.  We are complex beings and our understanding of ourselves changes over the years.  Criticism shuts down communication and sharing our respectives beliefs without it brings rich learning and equally important, warm connection to the process.  I don&#8217;t often participate in online dialogue because my life is very busy off line.  But I read these comments and was prompted to offer these thoughts and thank the Admin Staff for managing this site so that we all have a place to respectfully give to and receive of each other.   Patti</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10945</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 15:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Christine,

Another good text for you as a teacher is:
Bomber, L., (2007) Inside I am Hurting: Practical strategies for supporting children with attachment difficulties in schools.  Worth Publishing, London.  It is a terrific book, written by an professional who is both a teacher and licensed therapist and researcher.  

You might also want to look at:
Becker-Weidman, A., &#38; Shell, D., (2005) Creating Capacity for Attachment, Wood N Barnes, Oklahoma City, OK, which describes Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy, an evidence-based treatment with empirical support that is grounded in current thinking and research on the etiology and treatment of Complex Trauma or Developmental Trauma Disorder. 

If you have other questions, let me know.  I also have other information that may be useful to you.  For several years now I have consulted monthly during the school term with a group of counselors from a regional BOCES program (BOCES stands for Board of Cooperative Educational Services).  BOCES is an entity created to provide special education services for a regional group of school districts.  The idea being that a school district may not be able to meet the specific needs of a limited number of children, but by pooling resources, the BOCES programs have sufficient numbers to provide pretty decent specialized services for children with severe emotional problems, Autism Spectrum Disorders, etc.
regards
Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Christine,</p>
<p>Another good text for you as a teacher is:<br />
Bomber, L., (2007) Inside I am Hurting: Practical strategies for supporting children with attachment difficulties in schools.  Worth Publishing, London.  It is a terrific book, written by an professional who is both a teacher and licensed therapist and researcher.  </p>
<p>You might also want to look at:<br />
Becker-Weidman, A., &amp; Shell, D., (2005) Creating Capacity for Attachment, Wood N Barnes, Oklahoma City, OK, which describes Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy, an evidence-based treatment with empirical support that is grounded in current thinking and research on the etiology and treatment of Complex Trauma or Developmental Trauma Disorder. </p>
<p>If you have other questions, let me know.  I also have other information that may be useful to you.  For several years now I have consulted monthly during the school term with a group of counselors from a regional BOCES program (BOCES stands for Board of Cooperative Educational Services).  BOCES is an entity created to provide special education services for a regional group of school districts.  The idea being that a school district may not be able to meet the specific needs of a limited number of children, but by pooling resources, the BOCES programs have sufficient numbers to provide pretty decent specialized services for children with severe emotional problems, Autism Spectrum Disorders, etc.<br />
regards<br />
Art</p>
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		<title>By: Jean Mercer</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10895</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean Mercer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 21:25:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>DC:0-3R is a good source for people who have been trained in its use, and looking at the two versions (1994 and 2005) gives an interesting view of the changing definitions of attachment disorders. For example, the 1994 DC:0-3 speaks of Reactive attachment disorder, but this term was removed in 2005.

Some researchers consider the possibility that children with symptoms of the inhibited form of RAD actually have anxiety disorders, and/or problems with regulation of emotion. These suggestions are especially notable when we consider that "attachment disorders" were originally-- and not so long ago-- equated with Failure to Thrive.

Thinking continues to change on this topic, and it is no wonder that people feel confused about it. However, for the sake of children and families, we need to be able to tolerate ambiguity, and to avoid the assumption that disorders of attachment are well understood, easily diagnosed, or all treatable by a specific intervention.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DC:0-3R is a good source for people who have been trained in its use, and looking at the two versions (1994 and 2005) gives an interesting view of the changing definitions of attachment disorders. For example, the 1994 DC:0-3 speaks of Reactive attachment disorder, but this term was removed in 2005.</p>
<p>Some researchers consider the possibility that children with symptoms of the inhibited form of RAD actually have anxiety disorders, and/or problems with regulation of emotion. These suggestions are especially notable when we consider that &#8220;attachment disorders&#8221; were originally&#8211; and not so long ago&#8211; equated with Failure to Thrive.</p>
<p>Thinking continues to change on this topic, and it is no wonder that people feel confused about it. However, for the sake of children and families, we need to be able to tolerate ambiguity, and to avoid the assumption that disorders of attachment are well understood, easily diagnosed, or all treatable by a specific intervention.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10887</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 20:10:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Gayle,

One other point, if you'd like useful information.  In addition to the seminal text I referred you to, which all those professionals familiar with this subject  refer to, you might also want to look at The Diagnostic Classification of Mental Health and Developmental Disorders (2005) by the Zero to Three group.  

Of course the first text is really the primary text in the field, edited by Dr. Zeanah and including scholars (clinician/researchers) of international renown who have real professional experience, training, and who have conducted research into these questions.  You will find this material most useful if you want to explore your very good question in more depth.

regards,
Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Gayle,</p>
<p>One other point, if you&#8217;d like useful information.  In addition to the seminal text I referred you to, which all those professionals familiar with this subject  refer to, you might also want to look at The Diagnostic Classification of Mental Health and Developmental Disorders (2005) by the Zero to Three group.  </p>
<p>Of course the first text is really the primary text in the field, edited by Dr. Zeanah and including scholars (clinician/researchers) of international renown who have real professional experience, training, and who have conducted research into these questions.  You will find this material most useful if you want to explore your very good question in more depth.</p>
<p>regards,<br />
Art</p>
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		<title>By: Jean Mercer</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10875</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean Mercer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 16:18:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, clinicians refer to handbooks and their own experience, and scholars refer to that difficult-to-read basic research literature--  which is why the best answers to important questions come from a combination of clinical and academic opinion. The use of this combination really defines evidence-based practice, doesn't it?  And isn't it the intention of this blog to provide the best possible information?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, clinicians refer to handbooks and their own experience, and scholars refer to that difficult-to-read basic research literature&#8211;  which is why the best answers to important questions come from a combination of clinical and academic opinion. The use of this combination really defines evidence-based practice, doesn&#8217;t it?  And isn&#8217;t it the intention of this blog to provide the best possible information?</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10867</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 13:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gayle,

One other point.  As any clinician who has training, licensure, and experience (or who has conducted actual research) in this area and with, say Autism, would point out, that children can have "no attachment" for a variety of reasons and that this can be one factor in Austism Spectrum Disorders.  In fact, this category of no attachment of nonattached attachment disorder is described in the text below.  Most practitioners who have real knowledge and experience will point to several very important texts such as:
Zeanah, C., (2005), The Handbook of Infant Mental Health, 2nd. Edition, Guilford Press, NY., among several others.  

I hope this is helpful for you...and, of course, if you have other questions, do feel free to post here or to contact me directly.  Your post was quite helpful.
Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gayle,</p>
<p>One other point.  As any clinician who has training, licensure, and experience (or who has conducted actual research) in this area and with, say Autism, would point out, that children can have &#8220;no attachment&#8221; for a variety of reasons and that this can be one factor in Austism Spectrum Disorders.  In fact, this category of no attachment of nonattached attachment disorder is described in the text below.  Most practitioners who have real knowledge and experience will point to several very important texts such as:<br />
Zeanah, C., (2005), The Handbook of Infant Mental Health, 2nd. Edition, Guilford Press, NY., among several others.  </p>
<p>I hope this is helpful for you&#8230;and, of course, if you have other questions, do feel free to post here or to contact me directly.  Your post was quite helpful.<br />
Art</p>
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		<title>By: Jean Mercer</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10847</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean Mercer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 21:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those interested in the connection of attachment with autism may like to look at

Rutgers, A.H. etal. (2004). Autism and attachment: A meta-analytic review. Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, Vol. 45(6), 1123-1134.

This article reports evidence of attachment behavior in autistic children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those interested in the connection of attachment with autism may like to look at</p>
<p>Rutgers, A.H. etal. (2004). Autism and attachment: A meta-analytic review. Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, Vol. 45(6), 1123-1134.</p>
<p>This article reports evidence of attachment behavior in autistic children.</p>
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		<title>By: Jean Mercer</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10845</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean Mercer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 18:30:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Genetic factors and temperamental differences can make a difference to the ease with which a child forms a secure attachment to particular caregivers. Children with serious cognitive challenges may not display preferences for caregivers as early or noticeably as those with normal intelligence.

 However, because attachment is essentially a set of attitudes, feelings, expectations, and behaviors toward other people, and because it is a very robust aspect of development, the idea that there is "no attachment" in an otherwise normally-developing child is difficult to accept. Even children who approach strangers rather than staying with familiar people are displaying their attitudes about human beings, although in a disordered way. A child with "no attachment" would respond to all people (including other children) in about the same way.

If by "no attachment" Gayle means no secure attachment or secure base behavior, as I said before, this might be more likely for some children than for others, because of temperamental factors (inborn, biologically-determined personality components). If she means a lack of obedience or affection to caregivers, these matters are related to many factors other than attachment.

There are unconventional practitioners who claim that some babies are born with great resistance to attachment and refuse to respond to their caregivers. This claim is mistaken, and I would hope that other contributors to goodtherapy would speak against it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Genetic factors and temperamental differences can make a difference to the ease with which a child forms a secure attachment to particular caregivers. Children with serious cognitive challenges may not display preferences for caregivers as early or noticeably as those with normal intelligence.</p>
<p> However, because attachment is essentially a set of attitudes, feelings, expectations, and behaviors toward other people, and because it is a very robust aspect of development, the idea that there is &#8220;no attachment&#8221; in an otherwise normally-developing child is difficult to accept. Even children who approach strangers rather than staying with familiar people are displaying their attitudes about human beings, although in a disordered way. A child with &#8220;no attachment&#8221; would respond to all people (including other children) in about the same way.</p>
<p>If by &#8220;no attachment&#8221; Gayle means no secure attachment or secure base behavior, as I said before, this might be more likely for some children than for others, because of temperamental factors (inborn, biologically-determined personality components). If she means a lack of obedience or affection to caregivers, these matters are related to many factors other than attachment.</p>
<p>There are unconventional practitioners who claim that some babies are born with great resistance to attachment and refuse to respond to their caregivers. This claim is mistaken, and I would hope that other contributors to goodtherapy would speak against it.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10843</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 17:56:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Gayle,

Thank you for that terrific question.  My response highlights the importance of looking at causes and not symptoms since we treat causes not merely surface symptoms.  The quick answer to your question is a "certainly, yes."  For an extreme example of that one can look at children with severe Autism.  In these children the capacity to form emotionally meaningful, cooperative, responsive, and collaborative interpersonal relationships is quite impaired and their "attachment bond," is quite impaired...but having nothing to do with chronic early maltreatment within a care-giving relationship.  Another example might be the child who is born with significant brain-damage to the right orbital frontal cortex.  
regards,
Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Gayle,</p>
<p>Thank you for that terrific question.  My response highlights the importance of looking at causes and not symptoms since we treat causes not merely surface symptoms.  The quick answer to your question is a &#8220;certainly, yes.&#8221;  For an extreme example of that one can look at children with severe Autism.  In these children the capacity to form emotionally meaningful, cooperative, responsive, and collaborative interpersonal relationships is quite impaired and their &#8220;attachment bond,&#8221; is quite impaired&#8230;but having nothing to do with chronic early maltreatment within a care-giving relationship.  Another example might be the child who is born with significant brain-damage to the right orbital frontal cortex.<br />
regards,<br />
Art</p>
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		<title>By: Gayle</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10831</link>
		<dc:creator>Gayle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 12:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do you think it is possible that a child can be born without the ability to form thes attachment bonds? Even if everything was done right during pregnancy and child rearing?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you think it is possible that a child can be born without the ability to form thes attachment bonds? Even if everything was done right during pregnancy and child rearing?</p>
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		<title>By: Christine</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10769</link>
		<dc:creator>Christine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 18:48:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks so much for the guidance and resources. It is sometimes so frustrating to not know where to turn to help a student when there is obviously trouble at home and you feel like you are a real lifeline for a student, and sometimes the only lifeline you feel they might have at this point in time. I will certainly look at all of this and hopefully this can help me grow not only as a teacher but one who also struggles and desires to know and understand the lives and emotions of her students beyond that which is sometimes just a small piece reflected in the classroom and at school. Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much for the guidance and resources. It is sometimes so frustrating to not know where to turn to help a student when there is obviously trouble at home and you feel like you are a real lifeline for a student, and sometimes the only lifeline you feel they might have at this point in time. I will certainly look at all of this and hopefully this can help me grow not only as a teacher but one who also struggles and desires to know and understand the lives and emotions of her students beyond that which is sometimes just a small piece reflected in the classroom and at school. Thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2008/08/25/attachment/#comment-10747</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 22:20:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Christine,

I have those references now and hope that they will be helpful to you.  

In reading your comments I see that you made a rather astute observation about problems with cause-effect thinking that stem from very early difficulties in the parent-child relationship.  As a professional you know from your experience, and as any licensed mental health professional with expertise in this area knows, it is through the early parent-child relationship and attachment that the beginnings of cause-effect thinking develop, as my article describes (you can also look at Infant Mental Health… for more technical details).  Bowlby describes this process quite well, as do some other professional researchers with expertise in actually conducting such research in these matters such as Mary Ainsworth, Mary Main, Mary Dozier, etc., and as is amply described in the texts below.  

1. Geedes, Healther, (2006), Attachment in the Classroom, Worth Publishing, London.

2. Carnes, Kate, &#38; Stanway, Chris, (2007), Learn the child: helping looked after children to learn.  A good practice guide for social workers, careers and teachers.  British Association for Adoption &#38; Fostering (BAAF), London.  

I think that you will find that these references will be quite helpful in your work.  They describe the importance of attachment as a central organizing principle in child development and as a major factor in determining a child’s development and functioning in the classroom.  As I mentioned in a previous post, these books are written by educators and professionals and so the authors understands the nature of your work, are professionals like you are, and have real training, licensure, and experience relevant to your work.  

I hope you find the texts of use to you and that you will continue to contribute to this site; your comments have been quite informative, knowledgeable, based in real experience and understanding, and valuable.  
Thanks.  
Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Christine,</p>
<p>I have those references now and hope that they will be helpful to you.  </p>
<p>In reading your comments I see that you made a rather astute observation about problems with cause-effect thinking that stem from very early difficulties in the parent-child relationship.  As a professional you know from your experience, and as any licensed mental health professional with expertise in this area knows, it is through the early parent-child relationship and attachment that the beginnings of cause-effect thinking develop, as my article describes (you can also look at Infant Mental Health… for more technical details).  Bowlby describes this process quite well, as do some other professional researchers with expertise in actually conducting such research in these matters such as Mary Ainsworth, Mary Main, Mary Dozier, etc., and as is amply described in the texts below.  </p>
<p>1. Geedes, Healther, (2006), Attachment in the Classroom, Worth Publishing, London.</p>
<p>2. Carnes, Kate, &amp; Stanway, Chris, (2007), Learn the child: helping looked after children to learn.  A good practice guide for social workers, careers and teachers.  British Association for Adoption &amp; Fostering (BAAF), London.  </p>
<p>I think that you will find that these references will be quite helpful in your work.  They describe the importance of attachment as a central organizing principle in child development and as a major factor in determining a child’s development and functioning in the classroom.  As I mentioned in a previous post, these books are written by educators and professionals and so the authors understands the nature of your work, are professionals like you are, and have real training, licensure, and experience relevant to your work.  </p>
<p>I hope you find the texts of use to you and that you will continue to contribute to this site; your comments have been quite informative, knowledgeable, based in real experience and understanding, and valuable.<br />
Thanks.<br />
Art</p>
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		<title>By: Jean Mercer</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 17:31:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>But, Christine, don't you suppose that the inability to relate cause and effect might influence a child's ability to form an attachment, just as well as the events being the other way around?  Or that there may be one or more other factors that influence both? 

In any case, how could you tell from behavior that a person can't relate cause and effect? Would this mean that someone couldn't learn to open a door by turning a knob? Or do you really mean that the child gets punished a lot, but still misbehaves? If it's the latter, that could have a lot of explanations other than a cause-and-effect problem. 

I think one of the difficultiess here is that people who have made this claim about cause-and-effect problems have based their thinking on Piaget's outmoded description of the development of that kind of thinking, whereas modern infant development research shows that the capacity to make some cause-and-effect connections is already present   at a few months of age. The result of thinking that children can really lack that kind of ability is an unfortunate focus on what the child can or cannot do, rather than on the adult behaviors (e.g. punishment) that may be influential.

Attachment is only one of the many variables that combine to determine the child's developing characteristics, and we shouldn't try to make it carry more weight than it's capable of. It's important to avoid "criterion creep"-- the extension of a concept or a diagnosis to include a lot more than it was ever meant to handle. I believe criterion creep is happening when we begin to hear about "attachment disorders" outside the usual evaluative or diagnostic schemes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But, Christine, don&#8217;t you suppose that the inability to relate cause and effect might influence a child&#8217;s ability to form an attachment, just as well as the events being the other way around?  Or that there may be one or more other factors that influence both? </p>
<p>In any case, how could you tell from behavior that a person can&#8217;t relate cause and effect? Would this mean that someone couldn&#8217;t learn to open a door by turning a knob? Or do you really mean that the child gets punished a lot, but still misbehaves? If it&#8217;s the latter, that could have a lot of explanations other than a cause-and-effect problem. </p>
<p>I think one of the difficultiess here is that people who have made this claim about cause-and-effect problems have based their thinking on Piaget&#8217;s outmoded description of the development of that kind of thinking, whereas modern infant development research shows that the capacity to make some cause-and-effect connections is already present   at a few months of age. The result of thinking that children can really lack that kind of ability is an unfortunate focus on what the child can or cannot do, rather than on the adult behaviors (e.g. punishment) that may be influential.</p>
<p>Attachment is only one of the many variables that combine to determine the child&#8217;s developing characteristics, and we shouldn&#8217;t try to make it carry more weight than it&#8217;s capable of. It&#8217;s important to avoid &#8220;criterion creep&#8221;&#8211; the extension of a concept or a diagnosis to include a lot more than it was ever meant to handle. I believe criterion creep is happening when we begin to hear about &#8220;attachment disorders&#8221; outside the usual evaluative or diagnostic schemes.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 17:16:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Christine,

As a professional, you have a lot of real and direct experience with this topic.  I don't think there is any real debate over this particular issue among actual professionals who have training and experience in this area.  

In any event, your comments are right on target here.  Most of the current writing and research in infant mental health and related topics of treatment, trauma, and behavioral problems focus on attachment, attachment theory, and parent-child relationships.  

A wonderful book you may find helpful is
Attachment in the Classroom by Heather Geddes.  It is written by an educator.  There is another great reference too, but I don't have that right at my finger tips now, but will post it later for you.

regards.

Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Christine,</p>
<p>As a professional, you have a lot of real and direct experience with this topic.  I don&#8217;t think there is any real debate over this particular issue among actual professionals who have training and experience in this area.  </p>
<p>In any event, your comments are right on target here.  Most of the current writing and research in infant mental health and related topics of treatment, trauma, and behavioral problems focus on attachment, attachment theory, and parent-child relationships.  </p>
<p>A wonderful book you may find helpful is<br />
Attachment in the Classroom by Heather Geddes.  It is written by an educator.  There is another great reference too, but I don&#8217;t have that right at my finger tips now, but will post it later for you.</p>
<p>regards.</p>
<p>Art</p>
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		<title>By: Christine</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 11:59:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! I had no idea there was such debate over this particular issue. I have been a classroom teacher and guidance counselor for many years and while this may not qualify me to make a diagnosis, I have certainly met students and families over the years where this is clearly a problem. This is especially true in cases of not being able to identify cause /effect relationaships even on a most simplistic level as well as learning difficulties and behavior problems. While I know that there are those who will say that this may not have anything to do with attachement issues, I think that for many students this is actually the case. When you meet with families you get a sense of the familial relationships and know when there is more going on beneath the surface than meets the eye. I know this may be reaching for some people but I think that clearly there can be a realtionship between these issues and I am glad that this forum has given smeone the voice to bring this up. Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! I had no idea there was such debate over this particular issue. I have been a classroom teacher and guidance counselor for many years and while this may not qualify me to make a diagnosis, I have certainly met students and families over the years where this is clearly a problem. This is especially true in cases of not being able to identify cause /effect relationaships even on a most simplistic level as well as learning difficulties and behavior problems. While I know that there are those who will say that this may not have anything to do with attachement issues, I think that for many students this is actually the case. When you meet with families you get a sense of the familial relationships and know when there is more going on beneath the surface than meets the eye. I know this may be reaching for some people but I think that clearly there can be a realtionship between these issues and I am glad that this forum has given smeone the voice to bring this up. Thanks!</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 23:10:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually Jean, on second thought the most appropriate action (based on our Terms and Conditions) at this point would warrant me to either delete your comment in full or edit out the slander. I will first attempt to remove the slander and see if it is possible to keep the rest of your comment intact.  

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually Jean, on second thought the most appropriate action (based on our Terms and Conditions) at this point would warrant me to either delete your comment in full or edit out the slander. I will first attempt to remove the slander and see if it is possible to keep the rest of your comment intact.  </p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 22:54:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>With all due respect Jean I can tell you that, yes in fact, the symptoms that Art describes are often a part of attachment disturbance. I am somewhat familiar with Zeanah's work and it would seem to support Art's list of attachment disturbance symptoms.  But, as I’ve said previously, let’s invite the experts on the subject of attachment to comment about attachment and to answer your questions. You and I are clearly not experts on the subject of attachment.

You write in your comment, "Of course there are severely disturbed kids who have such symptoms, but attachment is not the issue that causes them."  I am frankly and completely dumbfounded by such a misinformed and false generalization. Furthermore, for you to associate Art's work with “Voodoo Science” (I later removed this statement and a number of others made by Jean) is truly an act of misinformation and potential slander that is not tolerated on this blog. Please state your facts accurately or I will have no choice but to moderate your comments in defense of truth and in protection of consumers who might be influenced by such nonsensical statements.  You have been given fair warning.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With all due respect Jean I can tell you that, yes in fact, the symptoms that Art describes are often a part of attachment disturbance. I am somewhat familiar with Zeanah&#8217;s work and it would seem to support Art&#8217;s list of attachment disturbance symptoms.  But, as I’ve said previously, let’s invite the experts on the subject of attachment to comment about attachment and to answer your questions. You and I are clearly not experts on the subject of attachment.</p>
<p>You write in your comment, &#8220;Of course there are severely disturbed kids who have such symptoms, but attachment is not the issue that causes them.&#8221;  I am frankly and completely dumbfounded by such a misinformed and false generalization. Furthermore, for you to associate Art&#8217;s work with “Voodoo Science” (I later removed this statement and a number of others made by Jean) is truly an act of misinformation and potential slander that is not tolerated on this blog. Please state your facts accurately or I will have no choice but to moderate your comments in defense of truth and in protection of consumers who might be influenced by such nonsensical statements.  You have been given fair warning.</p>
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