http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2007/02/15/solving-without-solving-good-therapy/ <<exploring healthy therapy & counseling>> Fri, 09 Jan 2009 13:25:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/2007/02/15/solving-without-solving-good-therapy/#comment-8 dyan Thu, 08 Mar 2007 08:14:28 +0000 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/?p=6#comment-8 Dear noah...I really love what you say about the model now-adays as regarding people as "flawed"...I have had a belief for a while now that our soul(or higher conciousness) is fundementaly trying to help us reach towards goodness....thats often why people drink, take drugs, overeat...because it temporarily makes us feel good..this sounds simplicstic,i know..so i always try and help people see how there problem may be actually benefiting them....anorexia helping them feel in control...alcohol helping them loosen up....and then there isn,t the feeling of seperation or fighting the problem. they don,t feel they have to "Kill" off something that maybe extreemly valuable to them ..then we can work on the "feel good" factor from other ,more healthy sourses...i find that by sometimes working this way...the problem is actually seen as a gift..not an enemy to be fought...and self understanding and compassion naturally arises and the "problem "often spontanueosly disolves. any way thats my thoughts on this...again thank you for such a wonderful service...the world needs sites (and people like you) now more than ever. Dear noah…I really love what you say about the model now-adays as regarding people as “flawed”…I have had a belief for a while now that our soul(or higher conciousness) is fundementaly trying to help us reach towards goodness….thats often why people drink, take drugs, overeat…because it temporarily makes us feel good..this sounds simplicstic,i know..so i always try and help people see how there problem may be actually benefiting them….anorexia helping them feel in control…alcohol helping them loosen up….and then there isn,t the feeling of seperation or fighting the problem. they don,t feel they have to “Kill” off something that maybe extreemly valuable to them ..then we can work on the “feel good” factor from other ,more healthy sourses…i find that by sometimes working this way…the problem is actually seen as a gift..not an enemy to be fought…and self understanding and compassion naturally arises and the “problem “often spontanueosly disolves.
any way thats my thoughts on this…again thank you for such a wonderful service…the world needs sites (and people like you) now more than ever.

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