Comments on: You Always Hurt the One You Love

By: marsha

marsha — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 12:41:34 +0000

I think we hurt those we love out of fear,fearing you might lose that person if you don’t do what u think its right for ur relationship

By: Jeff

Jeff — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:50:58 +0000

But these are the very ones we should not take for granted. These are the people who have been there for us through thick and thin. Why punish them when they ahve always simply been there to help us through our lives?

By: Oliver

Oliver — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 22:34:22 +0000

Hurting our loved ones stems from one thing- we take our loved ones for granted… okay,not that we really want to, but it does happen automatically over time… you see,when we are close to someone, we get comfortable…and then we get more comfortable, when this comfort level is at a high we somehow tend to take them for granted…it is human nature…

By: Chuck Holmes

Chuck Holmes — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 17:03:46 +0000

The bond we share with our partner is a very complex one, but simple things like understanding your partner, a little bit of forgiveness and plenty of love is sufficient to sustain a healthy relationship.

By: Eliza

Eliza — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 16:58:46 +0000

Don’t you think that a lot of this stems from the fact that we hurt those that we love the most because we are pretty sure that these are the people who will continue to love us in return no matter what we do? I think that in some ways it feels safer to take out our anger and frustration on these people because we know that in the end they are always going to stick around because they care for us. This does not make it right but we all have the habit of giving the most grief to our soft places to fall. But writing this out makes me realize that I better be a better friend and family member because it could be just as easy for them to get tired of all of the drama and turn and walk away someday.