Comments on: Thinking During Fights May Improve Health, Marriages

By: Steve

Steve — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 20:29:02 +0000

I always have a better outcome when I think before I speak. That should be the given rule for everyone to follow.

By: laken

laken — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 17:51:25 +0000

We say and do many things in rage but later when we think about what we said and did, we often feel like we should not have done those things and sometimes even hate ourselves for having done so… doing this thinking during the fight and before actually performing the actions will go a long way in making us happy and also preventing us from hurting others around us.

By: Jimbo

Jimbo — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 10:15:58 +0000

Yes, it really does! Its not without a reason that kids are taught to count till 10 when they feel angry… it is to divert their attention. Likewise, talking about the problem is much better than going all out in conflict and hurting each other. Why, peaceful talks are even brokered between nations in order to prevent a war! ;)

By: BIANA

BIANA — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 10:10:46 +0000

It is common knowledge that putting in thought before blurting out stuff is good and will prevent a lot of conflicts. I don’t think a study was required to ascertain this.