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	<title>Comments on: The Struggle to Stop Soldier Suicide: Dept. of Defense Plans Psychotherapy Study</title>
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		<title>By: Krystal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Krystal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 20:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Clark, i see your perspective but think about it, there has been an unofficial &quot;war on terrorism&quot; for centuries. Therefore, some people see no reason for us to go to war over it now. Right? There have been acts of terrorism all over the world in the past few decades, one you may all remember, the OKC bombing. It was called an act of terrorism. So why now? Why wage war in  the middle east? Because the Taliban have pinpointed the US as a target. They dont like our religious freedoms. They call us infedels. They train kids as young as 8 to fight and kill Americans. So why Iraq?? We all know there are no WMD&#039;s. We have all seen footage of the Iraqi people on the streets living normal lives, being normal people. But the Taliban do not consist of just Iraqis. But because their borders are conpletely unguardable due to vast deserts, Taliban who go to other countries convince illiterate men and women that the Koran tells them to kill Americans and that they&#039;ll be rewarded. When that doesnt work they hold a gun to their families and heads and tell them that they&#039;ll shoot their families. What if you lived in Pakistan, you were a simple man, making the most minimum wages to feed what little food you could to your family and someone came and took it all away. Took you away and brain washed you to become a suicide bomber. But that&#039;s not the case. Youre here in America, sipping your Latte, on your laptop, in your warm bed with your family, not having a care in the world while soldiers in the greatest Army the world has ever seen fighting on the front line so that poor foreigner doesnt come here and take away everything you&#039;ve ever known. Dont judge the war if you&#039;ve never been down range.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Clark, i see your perspective but think about it, there has been an unofficial &#8220;war on terrorism&#8221; for centuries. Therefore, some people see no reason for us to go to war over it now. Right? There have been acts of terrorism all over the world in the past few decades, one you may all remember, the OKC bombing. It was called an act of terrorism. So why now? Why wage war in  the middle east? Because the Taliban have pinpointed the US as a target. They dont like our religious freedoms. They call us infedels. They train kids as young as 8 to fight and kill Americans. So why Iraq?? We all know there are no WMD&#8217;s. We have all seen footage of the Iraqi people on the streets living normal lives, being normal people. But the Taliban do not consist of just Iraqis. But because their borders are conpletely unguardable due to vast deserts, Taliban who go to other countries convince illiterate men and women that the Koran tells them to kill Americans and that they&#8217;ll be rewarded. When that doesnt work they hold a gun to their families and heads and tell them that they&#8217;ll shoot their families. What if you lived in Pakistan, you were a simple man, making the most minimum wages to feed what little food you could to your family and someone came and took it all away. Took you away and brain washed you to become a suicide bomber. But that&#8217;s not the case. Youre here in America, sipping your Latte, on your laptop, in your warm bed with your family, not having a care in the world while soldiers in the greatest Army the world has ever seen fighting on the front line so that poor foreigner doesnt come here and take away everything you&#8217;ve ever known. Dont judge the war if you&#8217;ve never been down range.</p>
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		<title>By: Krystal</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17551</link>
		<dc:creator>Krystal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 03:40:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sherri, I&#039;m sorry to say but I dont think the issue of gun control in America relates in any way to our soldier&#039;s in the armed forces taking their own lives. I&#039;m sure if you did take away their guns and they&#039;re that set on what they want to do, they&#039;ll manage. Besides, if you take away my weapon... what am I going to use to defend our country?? a rock?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sherri, I&#8217;m sorry to say but I dont think the issue of gun control in America relates in any way to our soldier&#8217;s in the armed forces taking their own lives. I&#8217;m sure if you did take away their guns and they&#8217;re that set on what they want to do, they&#8217;ll manage. Besides, if you take away my weapon&#8230; what am I going to use to defend our country?? a rock?</p>
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		<title>By: Krystal</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17547</link>
		<dc:creator>Krystal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 03:36:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your gratitude. As for John&#039;s question, therapy is meant to help the soldiers recover so if found fit for duty then yes, they can stay in. It&#039;s sad to say but i&#039;m sure in some cases there are just some things that some people can&#039;t come back from. But they aren&#039;t thrown out on their asses. They are still taken care of. Please excuse my language.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your gratitude. As for John&#8217;s question, therapy is meant to help the soldiers recover so if found fit for duty then yes, they can stay in. It&#8217;s sad to say but i&#8217;m sure in some cases there are just some things that some people can&#8217;t come back from. But they aren&#8217;t thrown out on their asses. They are still taken care of. Please excuse my language.</p>
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		<title>By: Clark</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17497</link>
		<dc:creator>Clark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 09:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s really sad to know that our soldiers are so stressed. I think a lot of wars has not been the answer to solving any of the world&#039;s problems. War on terror has struck more damage at home than anywhere else.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s really sad to know that our soldiers are so stressed. I think a lot of wars has not been the answer to solving any of the world&#8217;s problems. War on terror has struck more damage at home than anywhere else.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17495</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 09:46:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel for the soldiers who are defending us and our country.  John is right, we can only imagine what they go through if we have never been there before.  It&#039;s no wonder suicide happens among soldiers.  Between seeing their friends and other people killed in duty, to worrying what will happen next and always on their guard....I applaud the soldiers who put themselves out there for us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel for the soldiers who are defending us and our country.  John is right, we can only imagine what they go through if we have never been there before.  It&#8217;s no wonder suicide happens among soldiers.  Between seeing their friends and other people killed in duty, to worrying what will happen next and always on their guard&#8230;.I applaud the soldiers who put themselves out there for us.</p>
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		<title>By: Sheldon</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17435</link>
		<dc:creator>Sheldon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 09:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was nice of you to share this with us Krystal and I salute you, soldier!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was nice of you to share this with us Krystal and I salute you, soldier!!</p>
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		<title>By: Krystal</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17399</link>
		<dc:creator>Krystal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 01:15:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a soldier. My husband is deployed. its stressful down range and in country. Yes, the military is definitely cracking down on suicides among the troops. Last month I attended a suicide prevention class hosted by our Chaplain. Its an Army-wide requirement and will most likely be held quartly. Just like our anit-substance abuse, anti-rape and Drinking and driving classes. All units have Chaplains which are cerified for councilling. ACS, Army Community Services, provides hotlines and free therapy. We are trained to look for signs of depression among the ranks and it is strongly encouraged to openly approach one&#039;s first line supervisor of any suspicious behavior. As for pre-enlistment screening.. I didnt have one. Hell, they were letting in soldier who had felonies for a while. It&#039;s a recruiter&#039;s judgement call. These soldiers killing themselves are doing so over recently developed problems. Maybe the made more money before they came in. Now they&#039;re struggling. Or the most common deployment problem, wives or husbands leaving them while they&#039;re down range. Some see and do things they just cant wrap their minds around. But they&#039;re not doing so because they&#039;re bad people. We volunteered. because if we didnt, you would be made to. If we didn&#039;t go there they would come here. But soldiers arent angels. We&#039;re only human too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a soldier. My husband is deployed. its stressful down range and in country. Yes, the military is definitely cracking down on suicides among the troops. Last month I attended a suicide prevention class hosted by our Chaplain. Its an Army-wide requirement and will most likely be held quartly. Just like our anit-substance abuse, anti-rape and Drinking and driving classes. All units have Chaplains which are cerified for councilling. ACS, Army Community Services, provides hotlines and free therapy. We are trained to look for signs of depression among the ranks and it is strongly encouraged to openly approach one&#8217;s first line supervisor of any suspicious behavior. As for pre-enlistment screening.. I didnt have one. Hell, they were letting in soldier who had felonies for a while. It&#8217;s a recruiter&#8217;s judgement call. These soldiers killing themselves are doing so over recently developed problems. Maybe the made more money before they came in. Now they&#8217;re struggling. Or the most common deployment problem, wives or husbands leaving them while they&#8217;re down range. Some see and do things they just cant wrap their minds around. But they&#8217;re not doing so because they&#8217;re bad people. We volunteered. because if we didnt, you would be made to. If we didn&#8217;t go there they would come here. But soldiers arent angels. We&#8217;re only human too.</p>
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		<title>By: Oliver</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17395</link>
		<dc:creator>Oliver</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 21:54:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And definitely time to give these soldiers the care and recognition they deserve.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And definitely time to give these soldiers the care and recognition they deserve.</p>
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		<title>By: sherri</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17353</link>
		<dc:creator>sherri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 13:06:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>maybe the time to be a little more in control of the guns in our country is finally here. . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>maybe the time to be a little more in control of the guns in our country is finally here. . .</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17319</link>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 05:46:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am just curious to know if there are any helplines that soldiers can call if they are upset or unstable emotionally while staying anonymous. Are they allowed to continue in service if found to be attending therapy of any sort?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am just curious to know if there are any helplines that soldiers can call if they are upset or unstable emotionally while staying anonymous. Are they allowed to continue in service if found to be attending therapy of any sort?</p>
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		<title>By: Shannon</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17303</link>
		<dc:creator>Shannon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2009 17:09:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I pray everyday for our soldiers overseas while there are too many who ignore this group of brave young people. I hope that through prayer this in some small way can help to alleviate some of the pain and stresses that they encounter. Maybe we have lost sight of this group and this is really taking its toll overall. I know that there are many who dismiss the power of prayer but I for one feel very strong about its importance in our lives and the lives of others and hope that we will not continue to dismiss the positive benefits that it can bring.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I pray everyday for our soldiers overseas while there are too many who ignore this group of brave young people. I hope that through prayer this in some small way can help to alleviate some of the pain and stresses that they encounter. Maybe we have lost sight of this group and this is really taking its toll overall. I know that there are many who dismiss the power of prayer but I for one feel very strong about its importance in our lives and the lives of others and hope that we will not continue to dismiss the positive benefits that it can bring.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17267</link>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 11:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a former Marine I would have to say that those who have never been in the military have no idea just how stressful the job can be. You can imagine but until you have walked in a soldier&#039;s shoes then you don&#039;t know. I am not surprised at all to read about suicide cases on the rise in this field. Saddened yes but not surprised.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a former Marine I would have to say that those who have never been in the military have no idea just how stressful the job can be. You can imagine but until you have walked in a soldier&#8217;s shoes then you don&#8217;t know. I am not surprised at all to read about suicide cases on the rise in this field. Saddened yes but not surprised.</p>
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		<title>By: Freida</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17261</link>
		<dc:creator>Freida</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 04:58:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being a soldier requires a lot of self-discipline and a constant awareness of death. Most of us dont live lives preparing to safeguard our own or that of others. The constant pressure of the awareness of dying is hard by itself to cope with. Following orders and disciplining oneself constantly causes bottling of emotions. When the pressure builds they pop. An emotional outlet for those who protect the lives of many is a must.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being a soldier requires a lot of self-discipline and a constant awareness of death. Most of us dont live lives preparing to safeguard our own or that of others. The constant pressure of the awareness of dying is hard by itself to cope with. Following orders and disciplining oneself constantly causes bottling of emotions. When the pressure builds they pop. An emotional outlet for those who protect the lives of many is a must.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17243</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 22:35:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How sad this news is. We should be so thankful for all that these soldiers do for us but I know that so many of them do not feel that they get the respect that they deserve which just makes the job that they have even harder. We used to be a nation that rallied around her military but now we treat them as if they are the bad guys. What happened to shore up this type of mentality? Add this to the overwhelming pressures that these soldiers already face in the line of duty and it is easy to see why suicide cases in the military are on the rise. I do not know if there is much that can be done to stem this growing trend other than to have psychiatrists at every camp site and that really does not seem very likely. I also wonder about the psychological screenings that are done upon having them enlist. Is this even done? I would think that would be a standard part of finding out whether someone is able to serve or not but I guess there is never any real way to predict how someone will react in real world situations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How sad this news is. We should be so thankful for all that these soldiers do for us but I know that so many of them do not feel that they get the respect that they deserve which just makes the job that they have even harder. We used to be a nation that rallied around her military but now we treat them as if they are the bad guys. What happened to shore up this type of mentality? Add this to the overwhelming pressures that these soldiers already face in the line of duty and it is easy to see why suicide cases in the military are on the rise. I do not know if there is much that can be done to stem this growing trend other than to have psychiatrists at every camp site and that really does not seem very likely. I also wonder about the psychological screenings that are done upon having them enlist. Is this even done? I would think that would be a standard part of finding out whether someone is able to serve or not but I guess there is never any real way to predict how someone will react in real world situations.</p>
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		<title>By: Lauren</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/soldier-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-17221</link>
		<dc:creator>Lauren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2009 14:09:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is no wonder that this phenomenon is a growing fact! Look at all of the heartache and violence that so many of these men and women have to deal with head on on a daily basis. It does not affect those of us who see the action from afar like it does them, because for them it does become personal. And if the military is anyhting like I would think, this is an issue that they will for sure want to push under the table.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is no wonder that this phenomenon is a growing fact! Look at all of the heartache and violence that so many of these men and women have to deal with head on on a daily basis. It does not affect those of us who see the action from afar like it does them, because for them it does become personal. And if the military is anyhting like I would think, this is an issue that they will for sure want to push under the table.</p>
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