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Saying, ‘I Am Excited!’ May Ease Performance Anxiety

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For anyone who has ever had to speak before a crowd, take a test, or perform in public, the experience of shaky, sweaty, heart-palpitating performance anxiety may be a familiar one. People often attempt to calm their nerves in a variety of ways: deep breathing, meditation, and medication, to name a few.

However, a recent study suggests that the best method of coping with the anxiety that sets in prior to a performance or a test is to get excited. In other words, embrace the anxious energy by telling yourself it is, in fact, excitement, thereby transforming it into a positive, energizing experience as opposed to a draining and debilitating one.

“When people feel anxious and try to calm down, they are thinking about all the things that could go badly,” said Alison Wood Brooks, PhD, author of the study and assistant professor at Harvard Business School. “When they are excited, they are thinking about how things could go well.”

Easier said than done, perhaps. But Brooks may be onto something. Regarding the study, which was published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology, she pointed out that both anxiety and excitement are characterized by high levels of emotional arousal, whereas being calm is a state of low arousal. Because of their energetic similarity, a simple shift in perspective may be all that is needed to convert anxious feelings to excited ones.

This requires actual effort on the part of the person trying to transition from paralyzing fear to exhilarating excitement, but according to Brooks’ research, the work mainly involves that person telling his or her brain, ideally out loud, that whatever it is he or she is facing is good and exciting rather than terrifying and threatening. Yes, that’s right: Just say it.

The experiments conducted by Brooks involved hundreds of college students and community members reciting statements about being excited when confronted with situations that trigger anxiety—specifically, a persuasive public speech, a set of difficult math problems, and a video game karaoke performance.

For the men and women who participated in the public speech study, the instructions were to prepare a presentation on what makes them “good work partners.” They were also told that the speech would be videotaped and judged by a committee. Prior to giving their speeches, some were told to say, “I am excited,” while others were instructed to say, “I am calm.”

According to the independent evaluators enlisted by Brooks, those who told themselves they were excited delivered longer, more persuasive speeches and appeared more calm and relaxed than those who told themselves they were calm.

Similarly, when given the set of challenging math problems, the group told to “get excited” scored an average of 8% higher and reported feeling more confident than those who were told to “remain calm.”

Before singing, the men and women who took part in the karaoke study were told to tell themselves they were feeling one of five ways: anxious, excited, calm, angry, or sad. Once again, those who told themselves they were excited scored significantly higher on pitch, rhythm, and volume (80%) than their calm, anxious, angry, and sad counterparts (53%).

“It really does pay to be positive,” said Brooks. So again, even if a person does not actually believe he or she is excited initially, the simple act of saying it—several times, if necessary—heightens genuine feelings of excitement.


  1. American Psychological Association (2013, December 23). Getting excited helps with performance anxiety more than trying to calm down, study finds. Press Release. Retrieved from http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2013/12/performance-anxiety.aspx
  2. Brooks, A. W. (2013). Get excited: reappraising pre-performance anxiety as excitement. Journal of Experimental Psychology. doi: 10.1037/a0035325. Retrieved from http://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/xge-a0035325.pdf

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  • steven January 2nd, 2014 at 4:11 AM #1

    and breathing exercises always work for me too

  • Jonathan January 2nd, 2014 at 11:21 AM #2

    In many cases I think that you will find it is very easy to talk yourself into something. If you tell yourself that something is going to be horrible and you are going to just have a terrible time and not enjoy yourself then there is a stron probability that this is what is going to occur. On the flip side if you tell yourself that you are strong and confident and that you know your stuff and that you’ve got this then there is a good chance that this is how you are going to enter into the situation- feeling like this is something that you are going to succeed at. You have to stay positive in life to be positive in life. No one is going to be any better a supporter of you than you.

  • Cheryl C January 3rd, 2014 at 4:11 AM #3

    If you say it and believe it, then this is what will be.
    It might take a little practice, but you can get there.

  • scared January 6th, 2014 at 10:47 AM #4

    I wish that it was this easy for me, and believe me I have tried every technique under the sun it seems and I still can never quite shake that nervousness that comes from speaking to a crowd. I have tried psyching myself up, doing the breathing, meditation, memorizing, all of that and still nothing quite qorks for me. It’s strange because I am confident until I get exactly in that moment and when it comes to go time I freeze and have a hard time getting through it. I am so scared of how I look and sound that it messes with my mind and I can’t hardly even remember what I am supposed to be speaking about. I hate getting this way as my job requires quite a bit of this and thankfully most people are pretty understanding but I can’t help but feel like I could have made it even farther in my career by now if I just could just find a way to shake some of this anxiety.

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