Comments on: Infidelity Can Enhance Your Relationship

By: Kyle Wright

Kyle Wright — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 02:49:27 +0000

I seriously am only seeing this as another addition to the pile of excuses an adulterer uses. An affair is not an unconscious knee-jerk reaction. It’s a willing, premeditated and conscious action that is a betrayal of trust on your part. If you don’t like your partner any longer, break up with them and keep your self-respect intact.

By: Toni Currie

Toni Currie — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 01:03:54 +0000

I was about to say “Whaaat??” in response to this, but on reflection I do see your reasoning. Couples don’t always listen and actions always speak louder than words. If it takes cheating to make it crystal clear that the relationship is not working, then that’s how it had to be.

By: MT Heart

MT Heart — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 15:30:13 +0000

Really? Infidelity and a heart attack?

Heart attack is your health. You cant do much about it(well except for being preventive in the first place). But infidelity is the actions of another person, and that too being fully aware of his or her actions. I’m sorry but I don’t agree with the analogy.

By: eric

eric — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 02:11:21 +0000

I’ve had an almost-affair give me a rude wake up call before. It’s not pleasant but it exposed the wall of differences that had grown between me and my partner. And yes, it was like a minor heart attack.

Our communication in the raleyionship had dwindled and the event actually was a trigger to begin talking clearly again. It finally lead to us getting back together and the relationship being stronger than before.

This kind of a thing may not work in every relationship but it does work for a few of us at least, as I have found out.

By: Georgia Campbell

Georgia Campbell — Tue, 02 Aug 2011 22:36:31 +0000

I am angry and mortified that the author was allowed to post this and to suggest that infidelity can make a marriage better is simply baffling to me! Obviously this is written by aomeone who has never experienced the pain of being cheated on in a marriage and having to come to terms with what that means for you and for your family. Shame on you for putting this kind of garbage out here. I had always hoped to find a more positive message but that is not the case with this one.