Comments on: Family Therapy for Hospital Blues http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/family-therapy-depression/ Exploring Healthy Psychotherapy Mon, 15 Mar 2010 17:50:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: Matt http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/family-therapy-depression/comment-page-1/#comment-17515 Matt Thu, 30 Apr 2009 10:31:59 +0000 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/?p=1957#comment-17515 I agree kyle. Its not only hospitals but homes as well. Grief has no propriety anymore. I agree kyle. Its not only hospitals but homes as well. Grief has no propriety anymore.

]]> By: Brittany http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/family-therapy-depression/comment-page-1/#comment-17413 Brittany Wed, 29 Apr 2009 05:06:57 +0000 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/?p=1957#comment-17413 My eldest was in a bike accident with multiple fractures. I am a widow and the last year was very tough. I have the most supportive friends and family. Still I felt like getting him through it was terrible pressure as I constantly felt guilty of neglecting my home, job and other children. He is still in physiotherapy but I can see the end of the road. It is a very difficult situation for anyone to be in. My eldest was in a bike accident with multiple fractures. I am a widow and the last year was very tough. I have the most supportive friends and family. Still I felt like getting him through it was terrible pressure as I constantly felt guilty of neglecting my home, job and other children. He is still in physiotherapy but I can see the end of the road. It is a very difficult situation for anyone to be in.

]]> By: Kyle http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/family-therapy-depression/comment-page-1/#comment-17175 Kyle Mon, 20 Apr 2009 13:11:36 +0000 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/?p=1957#comment-17175 You would think that as much as hospitals and doctors charge these days for the care that they provide that they could do a better job at offering more small comforts like these to grieving families or even those families who are simply having to stay in the hospital for extended periods of time for whatever reason. This inability on their part to do that shows that money is being misspent in all sorts of ways, yet never on the patients and family members who really need it. You would think that as much as hospitals and doctors charge these days for the care that they provide that they could do a better job at offering more small comforts like these to grieving families or even those families who are simply having to stay in the hospital for extended periods of time for whatever reason. This inability on their part to do that shows that money is being misspent in all sorts of ways, yet never on the patients and family members who really need it.

]]> By: Barb http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/family-therapy-depression/comment-page-1/#comment-17139 Barb Fri, 17 Apr 2009 11:54:26 +0000 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/?p=1957#comment-17139 It surprises me that this is a new thing for so many people. My parents both dies a few years back in hospitals in small towns and even then we experienced some of the best care that you could ever hope for. But maybe that is a part of it. In larger cities where you think resources would be more readily available it loses some of the personal-ness that families need. Whereas in a smaller town everyone knows you and they pull together as a community to help you through those trying times. It surprises me that this is a new thing for so many people. My parents both dies a few years back in hospitals in small towns and even then we experienced some of the best care that you could ever hope for. But maybe that is a part of it. In larger cities where you think resources would be more readily available it loses some of the personal-ness that families need. Whereas in a smaller town everyone knows you and they pull together as a community to help you through those trying times.

]]> By: Carol http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/family-therapy-depression/comment-page-1/#comment-17097 Carol Wed, 15 Apr 2009 12:12:59 +0000 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/?p=1957#comment-17097 I so wish that this was something that my local hospital had to offer when my father was so sick and dying almost twenty years ago. Yes we had great doctors care but no one there to worry about the emotional well being of our family and in particular that of my mother. Once hospice care was called in this was when we got the most emotional support not only for her but also for me and my siblings. That meant more to us that they could ever know. Not only did they help to make my father's last few weeks more bearable they helped all of us to see that this was really something that was for the best, a time to celebrate for him rather than focusing on what we were losing. If there were more hospitals that offered this type of specialized care even earlier it may save some from so much heartache during the important grieving process. I so wish that this was something that my local hospital had to offer when my father was so sick and dying almost twenty years ago. Yes we had great doctors care but no one there to worry about the emotional well being of our family and in particular that of my mother. Once hospice care was called in this was when we got the most emotional support not only for her but also for me and my siblings. That meant more to us that they could ever know. Not only did they help to make my father’s last few weeks more bearable they helped all of us to see that this was really something that was for the best, a time to celebrate for him rather than focusing on what we were losing. If there were more hospitals that offered this type of specialized care even earlier it may save some from so much heartache during the important grieving process.

]]> By: Jeff http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/family-therapy-depression/comment-page-1/#comment-17065 Jeff Tue, 14 Apr 2009 11:41:35 +0000 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/?p=1957#comment-17065 The hospital is always a depressing place- the more they have to offer friends and family the better. The hospital is always a depressing place- the more they have to offer friends and family the better.

]]> By: Kelli http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/family-therapy-depression/comment-page-1/#comment-17041 Kelli Mon, 13 Apr 2009 17:10:26 +0000 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/?p=1957#comment-17041 Is this mainly a useful tool for those who simply have an extended stay in the hospital or for those who are having to resort to the fact that the hospital is indeed to become a primary residence of sorts for a while or even for the duration of a lifetime? I am also curious about whether this sort of family therapy is cropping up more in assisted living and nursing home types of situations because you know there are many in these facilities who will never see their own homes again and just as many family members who have to work hard to make this an easier transition for any family member who finds him or herself there. Is this mainly a useful tool for those who simply have an extended stay in the hospital or for those who are having to resort to the fact that the hospital is indeed to become a primary residence of sorts for a while or even for the duration of a lifetime? I am also curious about whether this sort of family therapy is cropping up more in assisted living and nursing home types of situations because you know there are many in these facilities who will never see their own homes again and just as many family members who have to work hard to make this an easier transition for any family member who finds him or herself there.

]]> By: Patricia McBride http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/family-therapy-depression/comment-page-1/#comment-17037 Patricia McBride Mon, 13 Apr 2009 14:55:03 +0000 http://www.goodtherapy.org/custom/blog/?p=1957#comment-17037 The idea of family therapy being used for these purposes is really interesting. It is so sad that, despite a wealth of research showing that others forms of therapy are also effective, so little is rolled out by the medical world. Speaking as a hypnotherapist, I realise that people can be helped to improved health through psychological means in addition to traditional medical methods. David Hamilton in his book 'How your mind can heal your body' outlines numerous reseach projects that support this. I guess that no drug company will want to spend money on this type of research when they will make no profits from them. Therefore it must be down to governments or medical insurers to take this type of work further. The idea of family therapy being used for these purposes is really interesting. It is so sad that, despite a wealth of research showing that others forms of therapy are also effective, so little is rolled out by the medical world.

Speaking as a hypnotherapist, I realise that people can be helped to improved health through psychological means in addition to traditional medical methods. David Hamilton in his book ‘How your mind can heal your body’ outlines numerous reseach projects that support this.

I guess that no drug company will want to spend money on this type of research when they will make no profits from them. Therefore it must be down to governments or medical insurers to take this type of work further.

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