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Good therapy often times needs to go deep. There seems to be a split in the mental health field between approaches that emphasize cognitive solutions and those that emphasize emotional/somatic solutions. Both are important. However, our experience is that healing takes more than insight about a problem, cognitive countering, and surface behavior change. Rather than turning away from, countering, or compensating for our suffering, healing requires an exploration into the depth of the wounds that fuel extreme beliefs, feelings, and behaviors. To counter and turn away from is “more of the same” and only leads to more suffering. Also, healing requires feeling; as it is often said, “If we can feel it, we can heal it.” Many of our extreme beliefs, feelings, and behaviors are maintained because we have, in an effort to survive, avoided the wounds, pain, and burdens which lurk beneath. Good therapy helps one to process and complete whatever hidden and unhidden wounds one has harbored. Treatment without going deep can be like stitching up a wound without taking the bullet out; it’s more likely to remain sore and require ongoing attention. “Enlightenment consists not merely in the seeing of luminous shapes and visions, but in making the darkness visible. The latter procedure is more difficult and therefore, unpopular.” ~ Carl Jung