I hold a BS degree in psychology, and I am a transsexual myself. I have to strongly disagree with Mrs. Kochenburg’s point of view on this topic. It is not a matter of self-acceptance, or the acceptance of others; it’s an issue of balance. The mismatch of anatomy and psychology cannot simply be accepted and moved on with. I am told every day I am beautiful and have even been offered modeling opportunities, but I have never felt attractive.

For someone who does not feel attractive their sex life will almost always suffer a loss of intimacy as a result of deeply held personal inadequacies. This is the reality of the situation. While there are ways to better the situation, the issues still stand. If surgical remedies were not necessary why would we have them?

There are ways to make it better, but without surgery it will never be cured for a “true” transsexual. Surgery is the definitive cure.

There are a handful of organizations out there who are willing to help if you meet the necessary requirments. I know of a few who have been assited by these groups. Also, there are many insurance companies which cover a large portion of the procedures. I recommend some researh into the matter before giving up on your needs. There is help.

Best wishes.