Category: Relating to Self and Others
The Good Therapy Blog
May 23rd, 2012 |
Most parents don’t need an expert or a study to tell them what they already know: Kids get more homework now than they ever have before, with many high schoolers getting as many as 7 or 8 hours of homework a night. Most parents are as overwhelmed by homework as their children are and constantly struggle to create incentives for their children to complete their piles of homework. Many parents believe they’re fighting this homework battle to ensure a quality education for their children, but the truth is that there’s little evidence that excessive homework helps children learn. Indeed, evidence... Read More
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May 23rd, 2012 |
Disagreements are natural parts of relationships. When two people come together in an intimate union, they bring with them varying habits, personalities, and beliefs. Inevitably, these opposing views will collide and cause a conflict. Disagreeing with your partner is not a bad thing. It is healthy to voice your opinion and maintain your identity when part of a couple. And it is equally important that your partner be able to maintain his or her identity. Conflict is not the thing that causes negative attitudes in a relationship. It is the way in which the conflict is confronted that determines... Read More
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May 23rd, 2012 |
If you are reading this article, then you probably have completed your list of troubled relationships. I hope you are patting yourself on the back for having done this. I am sure it was painful to take an honest look at your current relationships. Generally, in codependent relationships there is some pain and emotional abuse. They tend to be rather lopsided, with you doing most if not all of the giving. When you realize this, you may get angry and feel as though others are using you. You may wonder why this is. It is because when they meet you, they sense that you are a caretaker who will want... Read More
May 22nd, 2012 |
Reactive and proactive aggression are seen as subtypes of generalized aggression. Reactive aggression is linked to negative outcomes and can stem from perceived threat. People with high levels of impulsivity and underlying anger tend to engage in this type of anger expression. Proactive aggression is a more manipulative type of aggression and is associated with individuals who exhibit interpersonal impairments, egocentric personalities, and narcissistic traits. However, more passive, proactive aggression can be just as damaging... Read More
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May 22nd, 2012 |
Note: The important issue that inspired this article was called to my attention several times . . . once by a trainee, then again by Noah Rubinstein during my web conference for GoodTherapy.org on the subject of transference, and again when, as a member of GoodTherapy.org I received their mailing about the petition I link to below. Many thanks to you, Noah, for your work helping to expose the dangers of the proposed DSM-5, and for offering me the opportunity to go even deeper into this issue.
Psychotherapy, when practiced as it's meant to be—with deep integrity, full commitment, seasoned skill,... Read More
May 22nd, 2012 |
Stress can lead to negative mental and physical health outcomes. People who undergo stressful experiences are at increased risk for psychological difficulties such as anxiety, worry, and fear. The physiologic responses resulting from acute stress also increase the risk for cardiovascular disease. Discrimination can even cause stress in people who merely perceive they are being treated unfairly. This relationship between discrimination and stress is well documented; however, the effect of anticipated discrimination on stress is less... Read More
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May 22nd, 2012 |
Flowers need water, light and the proper soil to keep them in full bloom. Relationships need the same nurturing and care but with different ingredients. In a recent article, Ashley Davis Bush, LCSW, psychotherapist, and author says that these ingredients can be found in one simple word, appreciation. Appreciation combines respect, love, acknowledgment, validation, and gratitude. With lives becoming busier, it gets harder and harder for couples to remember to water their relationships with... Read More
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May 21st, 2012 |
Suicide rates are higher among some ethnic groups than others. Multiple factors contribute to the rates of suicide ideation and attempt within different cultures. Understanding what influences increase the chance of suicide within a particular ethnic group will help clinicians and communities design and implement interventions for those most at risk for suicide. To determine how suicide rates vary across various ethnicities, G. Borges of the National Institute of Psychiatry in Mexico City, Mexico, recently led a study... Read More
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May 21st, 2012 |
Men who adhere to masculine norms hold themselves to higher emotional and physical standards than men who do not identify so strongly with these ideals. Men who believe in traditional gender roles assume that they should be physically strong and lean and emotionally guarded. They see emotional vulnerability as a sign of weakness. This could be one reason why there are far more reported cases of depression among women than men. Depression causes sadness, lethargy, and hopelessness, all conditions that are associated with weakness. These factors are... Read More
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May 21st, 2012 |
In my first piece, I said “we want to move into the place where meanings can reconstellate…we sit quietly, eyes lowered, with attention inside.” But what precisely are we paying attention to?
We are paying attention to the forming or coalescing of an internal phenomenon Gendlin calls bodily felt sensing (BFS) or bodily felt experiencing. Since BFS is a central concept in Gendlin’s philosophy (and is best grasped when sensed directly), I want to be clear conceptually about what it is and what it is not.
Gendlin’s construct of BFS is a holistic unity that cannot be divided into the... Read More
May 18th, 2012 |
Memory recall and information processing can begin to slow as people age. Words that used to come easily may need to be searched for as people enter their golden years. These and other cognitive deficiencies are normal signs of aging. But significant neurologic impairment is not. People with depression often have difficulty with cognitive skills such as information processing, memory, visual perception, and language, the same tasks that can present a challenge for some elderly individuals. Claire E. Sexton of the Department of Psychiatry... Read More
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May 18th, 2012 |
The subject of cannabis use and schizophrenia has been explored in depth in the past several years. There has been evidence of a clear link between cannabis use and psychotic episodes and a link between episodes of psychosis and the later onset of schizophrenia. But until now, no one has looked at how cannabis-related psychosis increases the risk for the development of schizophrenia. In addition, little research has looked at how this risk varies over time. To address these voids in research, Edison Manrique-Garcia of the Department of Public Health Sciences, Division of Social Medicine at the... Read More
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May 18th, 2012 |
Television shows from the 1950s and ‘60s rarely showed married couples in the same bedroom. When they did, they were usually in separate beds. Today, it is assumed that most spouses share not only a bedroom, but also a bed. However, in a recent article, Iris Krasnow, a journalist and author, gives compelling reasons why having separate bedrooms may be just the thing to keep the romance alive in any marriage. Krasnow interviewed people for her recent book on marital success and found... Read More
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May 17th, 2012 |
Perfectionism has been linked to both positive and negative mental health outcomes. Women who strive to meet high levels of unattainable physical perfectionism may be at increased risk for disordered eating and body image problems. In contrast, academic perfectionism can help a disadvantaged student surmount obstacles that would otherwise prevent him or her from achieving educational success. Although there are many studies that have looked at the role perfectionism plays in the psychological well-being of adults, few studies have looked at how cultural differences influence perfectionism in college... Read More
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