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	<title>Blogging on Good Therapy &#187; Family of Origin Issues</title>
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		<title>The Price Paid for Being the Perfect Child</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/price-for-being-perfect-child-0206125/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/price-for-being-perfect-child-0206125/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 20:05:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>BeverlyAmsel</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Art & Practice of Psychotherapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Codependency]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication Problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family of Origin Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Follow the Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Healing from The Inside Out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Healing Stories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Individuation]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[In one client's experience, striving to be the perfect child led to an adult life in which she found herself unable to assert herself and make her own decisions and feelings known. Through the therapeutic process, she became comfortable with being less perfect in her parents' eyes and better able to experience her life genuinely.]]></description>
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		<title>Letting Go of Our Fear of Loss</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/letting-go-fear-of-loss-0201125/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/letting-go-fear-of-loss-0201125/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 21:46:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>KalilaBorghini</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Different Side of Treatment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family of Origin Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Grief, Loss, & Bereavement]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=11505</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Many of us allow fear of loss to affect the way we live our lives, especially if our family of origin carries with it stories of loss. Letting go of this fear helps us enjoy the here and now.]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>Using Self-Compassion to Defend Against Learned Helplessness</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/self-compassion-defends-against-helplessness-0127124/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/self-compassion-defends-against-helplessness-0127124/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 17:30:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JiovannCarrasco</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abuse / Survivors of Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Acceptance and Commitment Therapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Art & Practice of Psychotherapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being & Doing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Child & Adolescent Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Elements of Good Therapy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Family Problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Helplessness/Victimhood]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Physical Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychotherapy: Models & Methods]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Self-Care]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self-Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self-Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sexual Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Human Being of Therapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Trust Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Young Adult Issues]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=11457</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[After having worked in a residential treatment facility for abused and neglected girls for 8 years, I observed that the phenomenon of learned helplessness had become an all-to-common denominator for these children. It was very rare that an abused child was placed with us for a single incident of abuse. By the time these children [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>5</slash:comments>
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		<title>Recovery Workbook: Exercise 1</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/recovery-workbook-exercise-1-012412/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/recovery-workbook-exercise-1-012412/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 21:15:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JoyceMcleodHenley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Codependency]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication Problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family of Origin Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family Problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Identity Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychotherapy: Specific Issues Treated & Changes Made]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=11407</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Now that you understand how codependency develops in a family surrounding a dysfunctional person, what are you supposed to do next? Many clients have said, “Joyce, now that I understand where my fear of abandonment comes from, how do I stop being so scared of it that I mess up my relationships?” You can learn [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>3</slash:comments>
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		<title>Does Oxytocin Increase Empathy?</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/oxytocin-increases-empathy-1221113/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/oxytocin-increases-empathy-1221113/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 03:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attachment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bipolar]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=11093</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Empathy is an emotion that is directly related to the bonds that were formed in childhood. “Children from secure and loving backgrounds develop enhanced motivation and competencies for empathy and compassion for self and others, in comparison with children from insecure backgrounds,” said Helen Rockliff of the Henry Wellcome Laboratories for Integrative Neuroscience and Endocrinology [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Surrogate Families Show Healthy Functioning In Latest Phase of Study</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/surrogate-families-show-healthy-functioning-1208111/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/surrogate-families-show-healthy-functioning-1208111/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 20:13:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Child & Adolescent Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cultural & Social Issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Family Problems]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=10958</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The number of children born through surrogacy has increased dramatically in the past several decades, up from 2,000 just fifteen years ago to over 17,000 in 2007. Susan Golombok of the Centre for Family Research, Faculty of Politics, Psychology, Sociology and International Studies at the University of Cambridge, has conducted prior research on surrogacy and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are Caregiving Styles Influenced by Attachment Styles?</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/caregiving-styles-influenced-attachment-styles-1130113/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/caregiving-styles-influenced-attachment-styles-1130113/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2011 01:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attachment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Caregiver Issues / Stress]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=10882</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Evaluating and assessing someone’s need for care is a critical component of acting as an effective and objective caregiver. However, according to a new study led by S. Jeffrey Bailey of the Department of Psychology at the University of New Brunswick Saint John in Canada, the attachment style of a caregiver can influence how they [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Children of Egg and Sperm Donors Benefit from Early Disclosure</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/egg-sperm-donor-children-benefit-from-full-disclosure1128111/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/egg-sperm-donor-children-benefit-from-full-disclosure1128111/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 18:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Child & Adolescent Issues]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=10838</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In the last several decades, more than 3 million children have been born with the help of an anonymous donor or gamete donation. These children are often raised by two parents, with whom only one of which they are biologically connected. “Those who become parents through assisted reproductive procedures involving gamete donation tend not to [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>Parent-Child Interaction Therapy Shows Positive Outcomes for Parents &amp; Children</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/parent-child-interaction-therapy-positive-outcome/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/parent-child-interaction-therapy-positive-outcome/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 03:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Art & Practice of Psychotherapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Child & Adolescent Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Domestic Violence]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=9768</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There are many treatment options designed to help alleviate symptoms of trauma in children, but very few focus on rebuilding the important relationship between traumatized children and their caregivers. “Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT), originally developed for families of children with disruptive behavior disorders, has shown potential to fill this gap in childhood trauma treatment by [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trust in Yourself</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/self-trust/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/self-trust/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 16:58:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NicoleUrdang</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being & Doing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family of Origin Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Follow the Heart]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Holistic Psychotherapy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Self-Love]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=9503</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If hope is the thing with feathers, as Emily Dickenson said, then trust floats on gossamer wings. Most people lose that child-like trust with the end of a first love, but not all. I have known a handful of souls who maintained it until death, or appeared to, but it&#8217;s certainly not the norm. Life [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>11</slash:comments>
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		<title>Part I: How Co-Dependents Come Into Therapy</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/codependency-therapy-jealousy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/codependency-therapy-jealousy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 17:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JoyceMcleodHenley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Art & Practice of Psychotherapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Codependency]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family of Origin Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Healing from The Inside Out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Infidelity / Affair Recovery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychotherapy: Specific Issues Treated & Changes Made]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationships & Marriage]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=9445</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Rarely does a client call for an appointment and say that they want help with their codependency. One of the many issues that bring clients to therapy for codependency is relationship troubles. Sometimes a client will call with a broken heart and feel that they should have recovered from it by now. Other times there [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>8</slash:comments>
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		<title>The Fear of Hurting the Other and the Inhibition of Self</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/fear-hurting-others-self-inhibition/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/fear-hurting-others-self-inhibition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 18:53:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>BeverlyAmsel</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Art & Practice of Psychotherapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being & Doing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication Problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family of Origin Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Follow the Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Individuation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychotherapy: Specific Issues Treated & Changes Made]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Relationships & Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Shame and Guilt]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=9409</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Even when it is unintended, some people find it intolerable to hurt someone they love. To experience hurting the other can create shame, guilt and strong “I am a bad person” feelings. As a result, we may avoid saying what is on our mind and put aside our own feelings and needs. This inhibiting of the [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>6</slash:comments>
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		<title>Who&#8217;s the Best?</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/whos-the-best/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/whos-the-best/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 20:40:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LynnSomerstein</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being & Doing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Codependency]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family of Origin Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family Problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Follow the Heart]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Inadequacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Object Relations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Self-Doubt]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8711</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The far enemy of sympathetic joy is envy, and the near enemy is comparing.” -From Devotion: A Memoir, by Dani Shapiro, page 199 How many of us go through our days comparing ourselves to others- who’s smarter, prettier, richer, taller, shorter, older, younger, etc. I don’t know about you, but I often catch myself telling [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>21</slash:comments>
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		<title>What is &#8220;This&#8221;? An Exercise in Contemplation</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/exercise-contemplation/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/exercise-contemplation/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 22:20:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SuellenFaginAllen</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abuse / Survivors of Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Contemplative Psychotherapy]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8660</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In my practice I often meet clients experiencing crisis, whether midlife, spiritual or existential, and sometimes it’s a combination of all of these. Laurinda (not her real name) was such a person. Laurinda came to see me once she was on the verge of complete emotional and physical collapse. The immediate trigger of the breakdown [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Communication: Competitive vs Cooperative</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/communication-competitive-versus-cooperative/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/communication-competitive-versus-cooperative/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 May 2011 20:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jimhutt</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Being & Doing]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8389</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We are taught from the earliest of ages that good communication is imperative. In both subtle, and direct ways, we are taught to be competitive when we communicate. Simultaneously, we are told to be cooperative.  What an impossible task&#8211;to be cooperative and competitive at the same time. The conundrum we are all faced with has its roots [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Marriage &amp; Family Therapy: A Hope for Real Change</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/marriage-family-therapy-hope-real-change/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/marriage-family-therapy-hope-real-change/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2011 00:54:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>BlakeEdwards</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8588</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Life in the trenches brings with it fears, burdens, and losses. Times of stress and embattlement may inflict wounds to be long left either ignored or haphazardly bandaged. Sometimes in adolescence the severing of openness with parents is a lonely precursor to endless turf battles in a fight for identity. Left unresolved, the gaping irresolution [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mother Dreams</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/mother-daughter-relationship-therapy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/mother-daughter-relationship-therapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2011 00:04:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LynnSomerstein</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Art & Practice of Psychotherapy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Object Relations]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8524</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last night I dreamt that a woman with long octopus arms was breaking into my house by slipping through the cracks in the door, which I kept shutting, and she kept opening. When I woke up I heard the phone ringing- it was my daughter, who had been out late celebrating her birthday with her [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Undeveloped Self and the Difficulty of Relationship</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/undeveloped-self-relationship-problems/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/undeveloped-self-relationship-problems/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 20:24:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>BeverlyAmsel</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Communication Problems]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8506</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When we describe the relationship between mother and infant, we understand that baby and mother are one. In that symbiotic relationship, there is merger. There are not two separate selves with their own subjectivities who are relating to one another. (One’s subjectivity is the unique way in which we perceive our self and the world.) [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Compliance Instead of Defiance</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/parenting-compliance-defiance/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/parenting-compliance-defiance/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2011 01:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>KellySanders</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Being & Doing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Child & Adolescent Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Control Issues]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8429</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I went to a Mothers Together meeting and there was a presenter that addressed how to get your child to be more compliant than being defiant. It was very interesting. I am going to share some of the information that I heard and found interesting as well as some of my own information. Children want [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Bottoming Out Twice</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/alcohol-bottom-out/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/alcohol-bottom-out/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2011 00:09:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DanielGoldin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Addictions & Compulsions]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8351</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[It has been said in AA, &#8220;An addict needs to bottom out twice to get better. First from alcohol, and later emotionally.&#8221; Most people who struggle with addiction started using drugs &#8220;to solve&#8221; what appeared to be unsolvable emotions. The word &#8220;emotion&#8221; comes from the same root as &#8220;motion.&#8221; Originally it meant a stirring within [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Beneath the Defenses &#8211; An Adventure in Mindfulness</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/mindfulness-workaholism-superwoman-stress/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/mindfulness-workaholism-superwoman-stress/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Apr 2011 23:36:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SuellenFaginAllen</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8291</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[“Mindfulness is a tool to get underneath our defenses. When we can observe ourselves closely, experiencing our feelings but not reacting to them, we don’t have to pretend that we don’t feel.” -Richard O’Connor, Undoing Perpetual Stress: The Missing Connection Between Depression, Anxiety and 21st Century Illness (New York: Penguin Group, USA, 2005), pp.160-161 “If [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Man Who Resembled Daddy</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/daughter-recovery-emotional-abuse/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/daughter-recovery-emotional-abuse/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Apr 2011 00:15:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>FeliceBlock</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abuse / Survivors of Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Forgiveness]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8260</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[My 85 year old father had a stroke recently. He is a survivor of the Holocaust, as was my mother of blessed memory. My father has survived once again. My parents withstood emotional and physical abuse to its extreme and while they loved me with all their heart, one of the by products of their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Jimmy</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/video-art-therapy-jimmy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/video-art-therapy-jimmy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Mar 2011 00:06:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>BarbaraMosinski</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abuse / Survivors of Abuse]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8146</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Full permission has been given by the client to tell this story on GoodTherapy.org. All identifying information has been changed. The client ‘Jimmy’ that I described in the previous blog, who created a video project in art psychotherapy, has completed his video. He decided sometime ago that he wanted to upload it to YouTube. His [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Authority: It&#8217;s an Inside Job!</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/authority-family-origin-power/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/authority-family-origin-power/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2011 23:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>judithbarr</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Aggression & Violence]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8144</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What is happening in the Middle East right now is a very complex subject. It’s very difficult to look at more than one perspective at a time, much like the blind folks in the room with an elephant, each thinking he or she knows what an elephant is from feeling it, while only describing one [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mental Health Prescription: A Good Life</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/benefit-psychotherapy-good-life/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/benefit-psychotherapy-good-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 17:03:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=8069</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A GoodTherapy.org News Summary The burden of life unfolding not according to plan can be the trigger that sets a mental health problem in motion, such as falling into depression after divorce or suffering PTSD after experiencing a trauma. Other times, life’s situations exacerbate problems we were already prone to, such as profound anxiety that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Part II: Voice Dialogue and Healing the Inner Scapegoat &#8211; A Transpersonal Perspective</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/voice-dialogue-transpersonal-perspective/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/voice-dialogue-transpersonal-perspective/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Feb 2011 21:22:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>FrancescaStarr</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abuse / Survivors of Abuse]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7983</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is the fourth in a series of articles on the Scapegoat and how Voice Dialogue can help heal this ancient phenomenon that continues to occur within all human communities and within certain sensitive and susceptible individuals. The first two articles explored the Shadow, the phenomenon called projection, and the history of the Scapegoat in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Images</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/trauma-images-art-therapy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/trauma-images-art-therapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 18:50:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>BarbaraMosinski</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abuse / Survivors of Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Anger]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7968</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Full permission has been given by the client to tell this story on GoodTherapy.org. All identifying information has been changed. Images hold keys that unlock our inner experiences. Images can penetrate built up defenses in the mind that dispel or diminish the importance of feelings and experiences in our lives. During a traumatic event(s), images, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Become a Good Stepparent</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/stepparent-adjustment-blended-family/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/stepparent-adjustment-blended-family/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2011 20:33:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LynneSilvaBreen</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Blended Family Issues]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7943</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[While most of us who marry intend it to be for a lifetime, about half of all first marriages in the United States end in divorce. Divorce ends not only a couple relationship based at least initially on attraction, trust and commitment; it marks the end of a dreamed future as a family. Despite the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>12 Characteristics of Adult Children of People with Alcohol Addiction</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/adult-children-alcohol-addiction/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/adult-children-alcohol-addiction/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Feb 2011 19:53:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>MartaRocha</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7927</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Alcoholism, known as “alcohol dependence syndrome” is a disease that is characterized by craving, loss of control and physical dependence.  Those with alcohol addiction, as well as being victims themselves, can have negative impacts on those with whom they associate.  Research has shown that children of people with alcohol addiction develop some personalities traits that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Do We Have to Do This Over and Over? Exploring the Roots of Prejudice</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/exploring-roots-prejudice/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/exploring-roots-prejudice/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Feb 2011 01:46:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>judithbarr</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Aggression & Violence]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7901</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Whether we know it or not . . . whether we want to know it or not . . . we all have currents of prejudice within our psyches. Although many think of their prejudices as simply “the truth,” others realize that there are some major roots to our prejudice . . . roots that need [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s About Relationships, Not Food!</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/eating-disorder-bad-relationships-food/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/eating-disorder-bad-relationships-food/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2011 16:04:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ondinanandinehatvany</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abandonment]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7863</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Beginning in infancy, relationships, food and feeding become intertwined. Think about it: Baby cries and baby gets fed. Someone has to do that feeding, and that someone is usually holding the baby and relating to him or her. So, from our earliest memories, food and being fed is one of our first ways of connecting [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Emotional Abuse: Is It Traumatic?</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/trauma-emotional-abuse/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/trauma-emotional-abuse/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 18:33:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>FeliceBlock</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Abuse / Survivors of Abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7829</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When a loved one hurts you through excessive criticism, put downs or abuse of any kind, you experience emotional and often simultaneous physical pain. But can emotional abuse be considered traumatic? Dr. Francine Shapiro defines two types of trauma, &#8220;big T&#8221; trauma and &#8220;little t&#8221; trauma. &#8220;Big T&#8221; trauma refers to what we commonly think [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Spiritual Bankruptcy</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/spiritual-bankruptcy-depression/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/spiritual-bankruptcy-depression/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jan 2011 20:55:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>KalilaBorghini</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7804</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The term “spiritual bankruptcy” is a word used in the rooms of 12 step programs to characterize addicts who have lost their connection to “higher power.” One dictionary definition describes spiritual bankruptcy as “a state of complete lack of some abstract property.” As we begin the year, I’ve been pondering what I believe “spiritual bankruptcy” [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stress, Family, Depression: Holiday Mental Health</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/stress-family-depression-holiday-season-mental-health/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/stress-family-depression-holiday-season-mental-health/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Dec 2010 18:21:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7643</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A GoodTherapy.org News Summary Though full of nostalgia, traditions, and wonderfully indulgent food, the holidays can also be a time of stress, familial strains, and the winter blues. Stress is especially common. If you experience stress and anxiety year-round to levels that detract from your life, you should consider finding a therapist or counselor to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Growing Up and Relationships: What’s Wrong With Me?</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/relationships-self-esteem-object-relations-parenting-psychotherapy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/relationships-self-esteem-object-relations-parenting-psychotherapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2010 20:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LynnSomerstein</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7585</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Richard came to treatment feeling angry, sad and resentful. He was scared that the man he was living with was getting ready to dump him. “That always happens,” he said. “Just when I feel my life turn around, I get dumped. What’s wrong with me? Why am I always the one who gets left? I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Spending the Holidays at Home</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/holidays-family-problems-judgment-communication-self-esteem-psychology/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/holidays-family-problems-judgment-communication-self-esteem-psychology/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Dec 2010 18:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SarahNoel</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Anger]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7557</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Home for the holidays– for some, this phrase evokes warm memories of family gathered together. For others, the phrase evokes a tremendous amount of anxiety, wondering how to manage complex and strained family relationships. Family issues and conflicts are as varied as they are common. One of the most common sources of family stress are, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Handling Eating During the Holidays</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/holiday-eating-during-holidays/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/holiday-eating-during-holidays/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Dec 2010 17:32:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DeborahKlinger</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7555</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[It’s the time of year when I see and hear a lot of tips for handling the holidays, because it’s the time of year when food-and-drink-laden events abound, and we’re often spending more time with family members, or spending time with more family members, than usual. Holidays with family are meant to be a time [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Santa Was an Artist</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/santa-artist-creative-blocks-art-therapy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/santa-artist-creative-blocks-art-therapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Dec 2010 21:40:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>BarbaraMosinski</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Art Therapy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Creative Blocks]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7536</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Santa Claus lived long ago in a far away land, far from the United States, in the hills of Bavaria before Thomas Nast drew the first caricature of a rollie-pollie man who evolved into the one depicted in advertisements today. Santa was an original Bohemian, you might say. He was well known in his community [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Holiday Blues</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/unconventional-holiday-celebration-grief-depression-psychology/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/unconventional-holiday-celebration-grief-depression-psychology/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Dec 2010 19:14:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CynthiaLubow</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7530</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Every year there is a great deal of talk in the media about holiday depression and how to cope with it. They talk about many important factors—financial fears, over-eating, over-drinking, being around family members who’ve hurt you, dark, cold gloomy weather, grief about not being with people who’ve died or left, stress and disappointment. They [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Exploring Attitude Through the Body Pt. 4 &#8211; Holding In</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attitude-through-body-baby-caregiver-psychotherapy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attitude-through-body-baby-caregiver-psychotherapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 2010 18:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>AyleeWelch</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Attachment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Body Psychotherapy]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7483</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So far this series has explored how the body-mind reacts to situations in early life where there is stress from external tension or inconsistent care. But what happens when care is forthcoming to the point where a growing child feels stifled?  Let’s conjure up a scenario to explore this. Imagine a child who is oohed [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A View of Your History Not Previously Considered?</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/somatic-experiencing-psychotherapy-personal-history/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/somatic-experiencing-psychotherapy-personal-history/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Nov 2010 17:59:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SherryOsadchey</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7457</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[“I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship.” -  Louisa May Alcott There is a multitude of ways to work through stuck places. I use the phrase “stuck places” here as an umbrella under which all reasons people enter into therapy may be categorized. Our reasons are stated [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Kids Use Drugs</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/adolescent-drug-use-addiction-psychology/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/adolescent-drug-use-addiction-psychology/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2010 16:58:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DanielGoldin</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7450</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I have two very different teenage clients who use drugs. The first we&#8217;ll call Brittany, a seventeen year old girl whose parents are divorced but who both are kind and available to her. She gets good grades, hopes to become a marine biologist and smokes weed with friends on the weekends. The second we&#8217;ll call [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Holiday Happiness: It’s a Choice!</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/holiday-season-family-emotional-abuse-choice/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/holiday-season-family-emotional-abuse-choice/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2010 19:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>FeliceBlock</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7439</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Do you dread the holiday season?  Have you had a history of holiday events that have left you feeling angry, hurt and lonely? When you think about spending time with your family are you immersed in self pity because you feel more pain than pleasure being around them? You are not alone. These feelings are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>In Love We Trust</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/relationships-marriage-trust-affair-recovery-identity-psychology/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/relationships-marriage-trust-affair-recovery-identity-psychology/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 19:51:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>KellyChicas</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is a devastating event to discover a partner&#8217;s betrayal; it strikes at the heart of many aspects of our identity. The betrayed partner may doubt their own attractiveness or their ability to judge people, and can raise questions about the fundamental goodness of the world. Our relationships are built upon the idea that we can trust [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Preventing Adult Mental Health Issues by Addressing Childhood Trauma</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/childhood-trauma-sexual-abuse-death-suicidal-behavior-psychotherapy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/childhood-trauma-sexual-abuse-death-suicidal-behavior-psychotherapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Nov 2010 16:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7369</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A GoodTherapy.org News Summary Perceptions of therapy and counseling are not without stereotype, and one of the most common misconceptions is that therapists will always blame an issue on the patients’ parents. While this is certainly an over-reach, it’s well documented that things we experience in our childhood do impact how we experience the world [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Key to Happy Adulthood and the Goal of Therapy</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/adulthood-parenting-psychotherapy-emdr-self-care/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/adulthood-parenting-psychotherapy-emdr-self-care/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Nov 2010 16:59:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CynthiaLubow</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Elements of Good Therapy]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7379</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I believe the task of childhood is to learn to be a good parent to ourselves, and the task of parenthood is to teach our children to become good parents to themselves. When this doesn’t happen, it becomes the goal of therapy. Sadly, this process can go awry with one’s own parents. Parents who never [...]]]></description>
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		<title>November Blues</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/childhood-sexual-abuse-trauma-art-therapy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/childhood-sexual-abuse-trauma-art-therapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Nov 2010 16:34:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>BarbaraMosinski</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Aggression & Violence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Anger]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7378</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When November arrives, depression is not far behind. Something about the turn of the season, less daylight, less outdoor activities, the holiday bustle nudging its way back into consciousness can make some people turn inward and find deep dissatisfaction in their lives. Deep dissatisfaction can show up as a persistent weight pulling you down. Sometimes [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Understanding Sexual Anorexia</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/sexual-anorexia-addiction-abuse-shame-psychotherapy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/sexual-anorexia-addiction-abuse-shame-psychotherapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Nov 2010 15:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CarolineFrost</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7356</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Recent interest in sexual addiction has drawn attention to a variation called Sexual Anorexia.  Also called sexual “acting in,” sexual anorexia is characterized by a severe aversion sexual contact and the obsessive avoidance of sex. Other signs of sexual anorexia include: -shame and loathing after sex -rigid, judgmental attitudes about sex -excessive fear about sexually [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fibromyalgia is Linked to Childhood Stress and Unprocessed Negative Emotions</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/fibromyalgia-childhood-stress-body-mind-psychotherapy/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/fibromyalgia-childhood-stress-body-mind-psychotherapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 17:55:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JeanetteRaymond</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7345</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Starting the day with fibromyalgia pain made Vera angry Fibromyalgia made it hard for 46 year old Vera to get her legs out of bed in the morning. As she moved toward the bathroom and began her toilette, the pangs of pain moved to her hands, head and neck. It brought tears to her eyes. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Masochistic Anger Part IV: Shirked Responsibility Gets Turned into Self Punishment</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/masochistic-anger-management-self-flagellation/</link>
		<comments>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/masochistic-anger-management-self-flagellation/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 17:37:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JeanetteRaymond</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/?p=7343</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Shirking duties was guaranteed to get Ezra angry With a heaving chest and throbbing temples, Ezra clenched his jaws in anger when he found that the vegetables at the restaurant were unprepared. It was bad enough that local farmers had not supplied the eggplant he ordered for his signature dish. To find that Danny, his [...]]]></description>
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