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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 23:54:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Therapists may be interested in the new Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Institute that has been formed to certify practitioners of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy.  The following letter by Dr. Daniel Hughes about the Institute may of interest to you:

Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Institute® (DDPI®)

	Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy™ (DDP™) is a method of psychotherapy that was developed in the 1990s for the treatment of children and youth who manifested serious psychological problems secondary to intrafamilial trauma and serious failure to establish stable attachment patterns.  Most of the clients receiving this treatment were residing in foster homes, adoptive homes, or—at times—residential treatment centers.  DDP was—and is—highly influenced by the theory and research findings related to attachment and intersubjectivity (Bowlby 1988, Holmes, 1993, Hughes 1997, 1998).  
	Over the past 10 years, DDP has continued to maintain its attachment-focused, family-centered stance while continuing to refine its theoretical foundations and treatment interventions (Becker-Weidman &amp; Shell, 2005; Hughes, 2004, 2006) and to broaden its focus to include the treatment of all families (Hughes, 2007).  At the same time there have been two empirical studies that have begun to demonstrate the clinical efficacy of this treatment model (Becker-Weidman, 2006a, 2006b, Becker-Weidman, 2007).  The broader evidence-base for this effective treatment was recently described in an article (Becker-Weidman &amp; Hughes, 2008) While DDP continues to develop its theoretical and practice base and although more research would be quite beneficial, its framework is now well enough established to warrant greater efforts to standardize its use, and to insure that those practicing DDP are remaining faithful to its core principles and practices. For these reasons DDPI is now being established.  
	DDPI will provide a certification process for those clinicians who are utilizing the DDP model of treatment and who wish to become certified in having demonstrated their knowledge of its core principles and their competence in its implementation in their practice.  To be certified clinicians will have completed a minimum number of hours both in DDP course participation as well as in receiving consultation of their utilization of DDP in their treatment (through video review).  Clinicians will also be certified to be DDP consultants, who are responsible for the providing consultation to those applying to become DDP certified therapists.  
	DDPI is currently in the process of establishing a board as well as finalizing the certification processes.  Art Becker-Weidman has been securing legal advice so that DDPI can meet the regulatory requirements to become a nonprofit organization and to establish necessary trademarks for the organization.  He also has agreed to manage the initial administrative responsibilities of DDPI.  In 2009, DDPI will be developing training and treatment manuals that will further operationalize the core principles and interventions of DDP, while still remembering that any such efforts must always be inherently flexible since the central features of each dyadic relationship are unique and often emerge in a nonlinear fashion.
	Information regarding DDPI, the certification requirements for clinicians and consultants, and other information can be found on my website: (www.danielhughes.org) as well as Art Becker-Weidman’s website: (www.Center4FamilyDevelop.com).  In the near future DDPI will have its own website.
If you have any questions or comments about DDPI please contact me (dhughes202@comcast.net) or Art (aweidman@aweidman.cnc.net). 


Dan Hughes, Ph.D.

Becker-Weidman, A. (2006a). Treatment for children with trauma-attachment disorders: 
Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy. Child and Adolescent Social Work Journal, March, 2006.
Becker-Weidman, A. (2006b). Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy: a multi-year
            follow-up. In New Developments in Child Abuse Research.  S.M. Sturt, Ed. 
	Nova Science Publishers.
Becker-Weidman, A., (2007) “Treatment For Children with Reactive Attachment 	Disorder: Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy,” 	http://www.center4familydevelop.com/research.pdf 
Becker-Weidman, A., &amp; Hughes, D., (2008) “Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy: An 	evidence-based treatment for children with complex trauma and disorders of 	attachment,” Child &amp; Adolescent Social Work, 13, pp.329-337. 
Becker-Weidman, A. &amp; Shell, D. Eds. (2005, 2nd Printing 2008). Creating Capacity for 	Attachment. Oklahoma City, OK: Wood ‘N’ Barnes, Williamsville, NY: Center 	For Family Development
Bowlby, J., (1988).  A Secure Base: Parent-Child Attachment and Healthy Human 	Development.  NY: Basic.
Holmes, J., (1993). John Bowlby &amp; Attachment Theory. London: Routledge.
Hughes, D. (1997). Facilitating Developmental Attachment:  The Road to Emotional
             Recovery and Behavioral Change in Foster and Adopted Children (1997).
             Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.
Hughes, D. (1998). Building the Bonds of Attachment: Awakening Love in Deeply
	Troubled Children.  Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.
Hughes, D. (2003). Psychological Interventions for the Spectrum of Attachment
	 Disorders and Intrafamilial Trauma. Attachment and Human Development, 5,
             271-277.
Hughes, D. (2004). An Attachment-Based Treatment for Maltreated Children and Youth.
	Attachment and Human Development, 6, 263-278.
Hughes, D. (2006). Building the Bonds of Attachment: Awakening Love in Deeply
             Troubled Children.2nd Edition.  Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.
Hughes, D. (2007).  Attachment-focused family therapy. New York: WW Norton.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Therapists may be interested in the new Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Institute that has been formed to certify practitioners of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy.  The following letter by Dr. Daniel Hughes about the Institute may of interest to you:</p>
<p>Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Institute® (DDPI®)</p>
<p>	Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy™ (DDP™) is a method of psychotherapy that was developed in the 1990s for the treatment of children and youth who manifested serious psychological problems secondary to intrafamilial trauma and serious failure to establish stable attachment patterns.  Most of the clients receiving this treatment were residing in foster homes, adoptive homes, or—at times—residential treatment centers.  DDP was—and is—highly influenced by the theory and research findings related to attachment and intersubjectivity (Bowlby 1988, Holmes, 1993, Hughes 1997, 1998).<br />
	Over the past 10 years, DDP has continued to maintain its attachment-focused, family-centered stance while continuing to refine its theoretical foundations and treatment interventions (Becker-Weidman &amp; Shell, 2005; Hughes, 2004, 2006) and to broaden its focus to include the treatment of all families (Hughes, 2007).  At the same time there have been two empirical studies that have begun to demonstrate the clinical efficacy of this treatment model (Becker-Weidman, 2006a, 2006b, Becker-Weidman, 2007).  The broader evidence-base for this effective treatment was recently described in an article (Becker-Weidman &amp; Hughes, 2008) While DDP continues to develop its theoretical and practice base and although more research would be quite beneficial, its framework is now well enough established to warrant greater efforts to standardize its use, and to insure that those practicing DDP are remaining faithful to its core principles and practices. For these reasons DDPI is now being established.<br />
	DDPI will provide a certification process for those clinicians who are utilizing the DDP model of treatment and who wish to become certified in having demonstrated their knowledge of its core principles and their competence in its implementation in their practice.  To be certified clinicians will have completed a minimum number of hours both in DDP course participation as well as in receiving consultation of their utilization of DDP in their treatment (through video review).  Clinicians will also be certified to be DDP consultants, who are responsible for the providing consultation to those applying to become DDP certified therapists.<br />
	DDPI is currently in the process of establishing a board as well as finalizing the certification processes.  Art Becker-Weidman has been securing legal advice so that DDPI can meet the regulatory requirements to become a nonprofit organization and to establish necessary trademarks for the organization.  He also has agreed to manage the initial administrative responsibilities of DDPI.  In 2009, DDPI will be developing training and treatment manuals that will further operationalize the core principles and interventions of DDP, while still remembering that any such efforts must always be inherently flexible since the central features of each dyadic relationship are unique and often emerge in a nonlinear fashion.<br />
	Information regarding DDPI, the certification requirements for clinicians and consultants, and other information can be found on my website: (www.danielhughes.org) as well as Art Becker-Weidman’s website: (www.Center4FamilyDevelop.com).  In the near future DDPI will have its own website.<br />
If you have any questions or comments about DDPI please contact me (dhughes202@comcast.net) or Art (aweidman@aweidman.cnc.net). </p>
<p>Dan Hughes, Ph.D.</p>
<p>Becker-Weidman, A. (2006a). Treatment for children with trauma-attachment disorders:<br />
Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy. Child and Adolescent Social Work Journal, March, 2006.<br />
Becker-Weidman, A. (2006b). Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy: a multi-year<br />
            follow-up. In New Developments in Child Abuse Research.  S.M. Sturt, Ed.<br />
	Nova Science Publishers.<br />
Becker-Weidman, A., (2007) “Treatment For Children with Reactive Attachment 	Disorder: Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy,” 	<a href="http://www.center4familydevelop.com/research.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.center4familydevelop.com/research.pdf</a><br />
Becker-Weidman, A., &amp; Hughes, D., (2008) “Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy: An 	evidence-based treatment for children with complex trauma and disorders of 	attachment,” Child &amp; Adolescent Social Work, 13, pp.329-337.<br />
Becker-Weidman, A. &amp; Shell, D. Eds. (2005, 2nd Printing 2008). Creating Capacity for 	Attachment. Oklahoma City, OK: Wood ‘N’ Barnes, Williamsville, NY: Center 	For Family Development<br />
Bowlby, J., (1988).  A Secure Base: Parent-Child Attachment and Healthy Human 	Development.  NY: Basic.<br />
Holmes, J., (1993). John Bowlby &amp; Attachment Theory. London: Routledge.<br />
Hughes, D. (1997). Facilitating Developmental Attachment:  The Road to Emotional<br />
             Recovery and Behavioral Change in Foster and Adopted Children (1997).<br />
             Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.<br />
Hughes, D. (1998). Building the Bonds of Attachment: Awakening Love in Deeply<br />
	Troubled Children.  Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.<br />
Hughes, D. (2003). Psychological Interventions for the Spectrum of Attachment<br />
	 Disorders and Intrafamilial Trauma. Attachment and Human Development, 5,<br />
             271-277.<br />
Hughes, D. (2004). An Attachment-Based Treatment for Maltreated Children and Youth.<br />
	Attachment and Human Development, 6, 263-278.<br />
Hughes, D. (2006). Building the Bonds of Attachment: Awakening Love in Deeply<br />
             Troubled Children.2nd Edition.  Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson.<br />
Hughes, D. (2007).  Attachment-focused family therapy. New York: WW Norton.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-13661</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:02:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you find that you want to explore treatment, it is very important to secure treatment that is effective.  There are specific treatments for different conditions.  Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy is an evidence-based and effective treatment for attachment disorders and Complex Trauma.

regards</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you find that you want to explore treatment, it is very important to secure treatment that is effective.  There are specific treatments for different conditions.  Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy is an evidence-based and effective treatment for attachment disorders and Complex Trauma.</p>
<p>regards</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-13365</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 20:40:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Holli,

It is not unusual for a child to be initially hesisitant about being away from the child&#039;s parent on first going to school.  That apprehension is quite normal.  If it persists, then there may be a problem.  Sometimes children reflect their parent&#039;s anxieties and fears and the child&#039;s apprehension about separation may reflect the parent&#039;s anxieties about separation.  Of course, separation anxiety can also have other causes as well.  

regards

Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Holli,</p>
<p>It is not unusual for a child to be initially hesisitant about being away from the child&#8217;s parent on first going to school.  That apprehension is quite normal.  If it persists, then there may be a problem.  Sometimes children reflect their parent&#8217;s anxieties and fears and the child&#8217;s apprehension about separation may reflect the parent&#8217;s anxieties about separation.  Of course, separation anxiety can also have other causes as well.  </p>
<p>regards</p>
<p>Art</p>
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		<title>By: Holli</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-13351</link>
		<dc:creator>Holli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 12:12:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>after reading this article, I sometimes wonder if my son had attachment issues.  When he started pre-school, I worried that he would not want to leave home due to he was always with me.  When he hesitated about getting on the bus and looked back at me, and later that day acted like he didn&#039;t want to go back to school, I wanted to cry, but I explained afterwards that is was something he had to do (school) and that he would make new friends.  Although he was not adopted, I believe that a lot of children are afraid of being away from their parents and sometimes act out if they don&#039;t want to do something.  We just need to be a little understanding and explain the best way we can why we do the things we do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>after reading this article, I sometimes wonder if my son had attachment issues.  When he started pre-school, I worried that he would not want to leave home due to he was always with me.  When he hesitated about getting on the bus and looked back at me, and later that day acted like he didn&#8217;t want to go back to school, I wanted to cry, but I explained afterwards that is was something he had to do (school) and that he would make new friends.  Although he was not adopted, I believe that a lot of children are afraid of being away from their parents and sometimes act out if they don&#8217;t want to do something.  We just need to be a little understanding and explain the best way we can why we do the things we do.</p>
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		<title>By: alyssa</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-13195</link>
		<dc:creator>alyssa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 10:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the example above with Gail and Sally.  This just reminds us that we need to show love and understanding to not only adoptive children but our own as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the example above with Gail and Sally.  This just reminds us that we need to show love and understanding to not only adoptive children but our own as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-12977</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 21:20:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adoption is a complex process and it is so important to be ready.  This is especially true if the child is an older child.  In those instances, a more therapeutic parenting approach is often necessary.  A good resource if the Therapeutic Parenting Manuel that is published by the Association for the Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children (www.attach.org).
regards, and thanks so much for your comments.

art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adoption is a complex process and it is so important to be ready.  This is especially true if the child is an older child.  In those instances, a more therapeutic parenting approach is often necessary.  A good resource if the Therapeutic Parenting Manuel that is published by the Association for the Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children (www.attach.org).<br />
regards, and thanks so much for your comments.</p>
<p>art</p>
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		<title>By: leeza</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-12955</link>
		<dc:creator>leeza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 12:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robyn, I don&#039;t think I could have said it better.  I applaud you for your commitment!  Whether the children are adoptive or your own, every parent is going to make mistakes, but we learn from them.  We are human.  I am happy to hear that the adoptive process was a success.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robyn, I don&#8217;t think I could have said it better.  I applaud you for your commitment!  Whether the children are adoptive or your own, every parent is going to make mistakes, but we learn from them.  We are human.  I am happy to hear that the adoptive process was a success.</p>
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		<title>By: Tarra</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-12953</link>
		<dc:creator>Tarra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 12:03:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s wonderful for people who can adopt.  These children need the love and understanding of a caring parent.  I really enjoyed this article and it brings some light on adopting and what one goes thru</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s wonderful for people who can adopt.  These children need the love and understanding of a caring parent.  I really enjoyed this article and it brings some light on adopting and what one goes thru</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-12455</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 22:20:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Jerry,

Abandoning a child is a difficult and painful event (for all involved).  Being able to safely abandon a new born is actually a good thing as it allows for just what you are suggesting: allowing the child to be taken in and adopted by a family that care adequately care for the infant.  

thanks for your comments, I appreciate it.

Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Jerry,</p>
<p>Abandoning a child is a difficult and painful event (for all involved).  Being able to safely abandon a new born is actually a good thing as it allows for just what you are suggesting: allowing the child to be taken in and adopted by a family that care adequately care for the infant.  </p>
<p>thanks for your comments, I appreciate it.</p>
<p>Art</p>
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		<title>By: Jerry</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-12441</link>
		<dc:creator>Jerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 17:47:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adoption can be such a wonderful thing for so many families. I worry more about these older kids who are being dropped off in Nebraska all over the place because their parents have decided they cannot take care of them. I wonder what kinds of attachment issues and emotional concerns this is going to cause into adulthood for these kids. These are the kids who need loving familes the most and they are simply being thrown away like yesterday&#039;s garbage. Shame on those who are doing this. You can say it is to give them a better life but there has to be a better way than this. Think long and hard before having children- look at all of the people out there who actually want them and cannot have kids of their own.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adoption can be such a wonderful thing for so many families. I worry more about these older kids who are being dropped off in Nebraska all over the place because their parents have decided they cannot take care of them. I wonder what kinds of attachment issues and emotional concerns this is going to cause into adulthood for these kids. These are the kids who need loving familes the most and they are simply being thrown away like yesterday&#8217;s garbage. Shame on those who are doing this. You can say it is to give them a better life but there has to be a better way than this. Think long and hard before having children- look at all of the people out there who actually want them and cannot have kids of their own.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-12361</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 22:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Deidre,

Autism can manifest itself before 18 months of age.  As far as I am aware, there is no increased incidence of Autism among adopted children.  Actually, if we think about it, that should not be a surprise.  Since Autism is largely a neurological disorder, it&#039;s incidence may be expected to be similar across various methods of forming a family.  

Good question.  

regards

Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Deidre,</p>
<p>Autism can manifest itself before 18 months of age.  As far as I am aware, there is no increased incidence of Autism among adopted children.  Actually, if we think about it, that should not be a surprise.  Since Autism is largely a neurological disorder, it&#8217;s incidence may be expected to be similar across various methods of forming a family.  </p>
<p>Good question.  </p>
<p>regards</p>
<p>Art</p>
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		<title>By: Deidre</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-12355</link>
		<dc:creator>Deidre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 22:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Since often autism does not manifest itself until sometime around the 18 month old stage have there been any studies relating to increased cases of autism in adopted children? I wonder if attachment are ever thought to be a part of this? Any input would be helpful and appreciated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since often autism does not manifest itself until sometime around the 18 month old stage have there been any studies relating to increased cases of autism in adopted children? I wonder if attachment are ever thought to be a part of this? Any input would be helpful and appreciated.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-12341</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 12:54:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Audry,

You may have to contact someone in a nearby state to find a closer resource.  Try someone in any of the neighboring states and see if they have a recommendation for you.  It can be very difficult to find the right person in your town.  I sometimes have people traveling four hours each way each week for treatment and we have families coming from all across the US and internationally for our two-week intensive treatment program...so I do understand what you may be up against.  
You can always feel free to call me to discuss any of this in more detail.  
regards
Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Audry,</p>
<p>You may have to contact someone in a nearby state to find a closer resource.  Try someone in any of the neighboring states and see if they have a recommendation for you.  It can be very difficult to find the right person in your town.  I sometimes have people traveling four hours each way each week for treatment and we have families coming from all across the US and internationally for our two-week intensive treatment program&#8230;so I do understand what you may be up against.<br />
You can always feel free to call me to discuss any of this in more detail.<br />
regards<br />
Art</p>
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		<title>By: Audrey</title>
		<link>http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/attachment-children-concerns/comment-page-1/#comment-12339</link>
		<dc:creator>Audrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 02:41:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I did check the attach.com site and there are no listings in AZ.  Maybe you may know of someone or how I can find someone for this.  I have tried several avenues but hit dead ends so any help would be helpful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did check the attach.com site and there are no listings in AZ.  Maybe you may know of someone or how I can find someone for this.  I have tried several avenues but hit dead ends so any help would be helpful.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 00:28:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Audry,

Yes, it can be a real struggle.  That is why it is so important to be sure that you get an excellent and thorough evaluation and then appropriate treatment.  Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy is an evidence-based and effective treatment for complex trauma and disorders of attachment.  You may be able to find someone in your area on the list of registered clinicians at attach. org.  I hope this helps.

regards

art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Audry,</p>
<p>Yes, it can be a real struggle.  That is why it is so important to be sure that you get an excellent and thorough evaluation and then appropriate treatment.  Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy is an evidence-based and effective treatment for complex trauma and disorders of attachment.  You may be able to find someone in your area on the list of registered clinicians at attach. org.  I hope this helps.</p>
<p>regards</p>
<p>art</p>
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		<title>By: Audrey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Audrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 19:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a grandparent who adopted 4 grandchildren 2 years ago after fostering them for 3 years.  They are now 12, 10, 8, and 6.  We have multiply problems including RAD which so far in AZ (PHX) no luck in getting help.  The system finds us at fault instead of realizing that these children have been through so much in the first few years of life.  People are so blind to see the problem and would rather place blame.  We are having such a hard time finding a therapist for them as one possiblely two the oldest ones were sexually molested.  The one they have now has gotten now where in the last year.  Help just doesn&#039;t seem to be there and it is tearing our family apart.  RAD is real wish people would see and understand!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a grandparent who adopted 4 grandchildren 2 years ago after fostering them for 3 years.  They are now 12, 10, 8, and 6.  We have multiply problems including RAD which so far in AZ (PHX) no luck in getting help.  The system finds us at fault instead of realizing that these children have been through so much in the first few years of life.  People are so blind to see the problem and would rather place blame.  We are having such a hard time finding a therapist for them as one possiblely two the oldest ones were sexually molested.  The one they have now has gotten now where in the last year.  Help just doesn&#8217;t seem to be there and it is tearing our family apart.  RAD is real wish people would see and understand!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robyn,

What a beautiful and lovely story.  Thank you so much for sharing this.  Sometimes we get caught up on only thinking about the problems.  There are many joys as well.  As an adoptive parent I am in complete agreement with you on this point.

regards

Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robyn,</p>
<p>What a beautiful and lovely story.  Thank you so much for sharing this.  Sometimes we get caught up on only thinking about the problems.  There are many joys as well.  As an adoptive parent I am in complete agreement with you on this point.</p>
<p>regards</p>
<p>Art</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Arthur Becker-Weidman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:37:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ryan,

You raise an interesting point.  I suppose we also have to consider the fact that permanency for a child is very important and a lack of permanency is one factor in a variety of mental health problems.  Having a forever family makes a significant positive difference in a child&#039;s life, especially when that child has a history of chronic maltreatment and is  now in the child welfare system.
Thanks for the comment.

Art</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ryan,</p>
<p>You raise an interesting point.  I suppose we also have to consider the fact that permanency for a child is very important and a lack of permanency is one factor in a variety of mental health problems.  Having a forever family makes a significant positive difference in a child&#8217;s life, especially when that child has a history of chronic maltreatment and is  now in the child welfare system.<br />
Thanks for the comment.</p>
<p>Art</p>
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		<title>By: Robyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 13:10:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a mom who adopted two children several years ago from a foreign country and I think that not only am I happier now with children but I saved them from a lifetime of poverty, poor health, orphanages, and who knows what else. I cannot imagine my family now without these two very healthy, physically and emotionally, children. We had such a wonderful transition and it makes me very sad to hear that other adoptive families routinely do not experience the same. For us and for the kids the adoption process was such a blessing and I would never want to discourage anyone from taking this journey which can enrich your lives in so many ways. I do think that there are sometimes mistakes made along the way but that is why you have to do your research into the issue ahead of time and make a committment that this is what is going to be the ideal arrangement for your whole family. You have to be willing to give one hundred percent of yourself and your time to make it work just like you do when any new child enters your family. There are things you can do to make the transition easier and many support groups who will stand by you every step of the way to help ensure a positive experience for everyone. Adoption can be such a blessing and I hope that anyone who longs for a child will take this option under serious consideration.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a mom who adopted two children several years ago from a foreign country and I think that not only am I happier now with children but I saved them from a lifetime of poverty, poor health, orphanages, and who knows what else. I cannot imagine my family now without these two very healthy, physically and emotionally, children. We had such a wonderful transition and it makes me very sad to hear that other adoptive families routinely do not experience the same. For us and for the kids the adoption process was such a blessing and I would never want to discourage anyone from taking this journey which can enrich your lives in so many ways. I do think that there are sometimes mistakes made along the way but that is why you have to do your research into the issue ahead of time and make a committment that this is what is going to be the ideal arrangement for your whole family. You have to be willing to give one hundred percent of yourself and your time to make it work just like you do when any new child enters your family. There are things you can do to make the transition easier and many support groups who will stand by you every step of the way to help ensure a positive experience for everyone. Adoption can be such a blessing and I hope that anyone who longs for a child will take this option under serious consideration.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2008 22:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am often concerned about the welfare of some of these adopted children who are farmed out to celebrities who do not have a stable home environment anyway. Look at Madonna or even Angelina and Brad- they have children of their own. Why invite the scrutiny of the whole world to feed upon the innocent children you are adopting? Not only will these kids probably have attachment issues but they are destined to be brought up with the entire world scrutinizing their every move. That is not to say that some of them are not trying to do a good thing but who is it benefitting in the end? The children they bring into this or their own self image? I wonder sometimes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am often concerned about the welfare of some of these adopted children who are farmed out to celebrities who do not have a stable home environment anyway. Look at Madonna or even Angelina and Brad- they have children of their own. Why invite the scrutiny of the whole world to feed upon the innocent children you are adopting? Not only will these kids probably have attachment issues but they are destined to be brought up with the entire world scrutinizing their every move. That is not to say that some of them are not trying to do a good thing but who is it benefitting in the end? The children they bring into this or their own self image? I wonder sometimes.</p>
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